Having a disability doesn’t mean not having sexuality, but you’d never know that from the messaging out there. Here’s sex, relationships and bodies information for people with a range of disabilities, from neurodiversity to chronic illness to mobility or cognitive disability. Nothing about us without us: our disability information is almost always written by people with disabilities themselves.
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I’m 23, and grew up in a relatively conservative environment. I’m Black and adopted, live in a rural community, had catholic school education for 14 years, and am chronically ill with Crohn’s Disease...
I really want to have sex, but I don't know how, and I'm queer, chronically ill and isolated.
- Kelli Dunham RN BSN
Articles and Advice in this area:
- Lisa Laman
Just because you face your own set of specific challenges doesn’t mean you get a free pass to discount the humanity of someone else.
- Eva Sweeney
People often have day-to-day coping mechanisms to help manage their spasticity, but what do you do when you have spasticity and want to have sex?
- Lisa Laman
For individuals on the Autism spectrum or anyone with some kind of disability, it can be hard to ask for help. Here’s a little advice from someone who knows.
- Carrie Kaufman
It’s so important to be able to tell our partners how to support and pleasure us in the ways that work for us.
- Madison Parrotta
Depending on your disability, everything involving sex may require help – and if your parent is your primary caregiver, bringing up these topics (let alone asking for assistance with them) is not an easy task.
- Nicole Guappone
While chronic pain (including pain with sex) is common, it is not “normal.” If it hurts, it’s usually because something is wrong.
- Lisa Laman
There isn’t a one-size-fits-all process for deciding how, and when, to talk with a date about being autistic.
- Andrew Gurza
It took a long time for me to come to terms with my singledom, but now that I’m here, I couldn’t be happier.
- Andrew Gurza
When your disabled body decides to literally crap out on you, how do you bring sexy back?