Suddenly, a person you’ve been regularly communicating with is M.I.A. Without warning, a fixture of recent life can become a memory. Somebody you’d bonded with has abruptly stopped contacting you. The text messages have ceased, all traces of their presence in your life have been yanked away by them, and without warning or explanation. But just because the experience is stressful doesn’t mean it’s impossible to endure. There are ways for autistic people to come out the other side of getting ghosted.
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- Lisa Laman
- Gabriel Leão
Sex and sexuality are still often taboo for pregnant people, and for members of the LGBTQIA+ community and other marginalized people who don’t fit a given culture’s ideas or ideals of pregnancy, it can be even more challenging. American sex coach Kaci Mial, M.Ed. works with people trying to get pregnant, during pregnancy, and postpartum.
The Body Is Not An Apology offers articles, webinars, and other resources that frame bodies and body image through a lens of radical self-love. They are, “an international movement committed to cultivating global radical self-love and bodily empowerment. We believe that discrimination, social…
- Heather Corinna
As a writer and a reader, books have always been my constant companions: when I feel alone and isolated, they’re one of the first places I turn. We’ve got you here in our direct services at Scarleteen (and if you want to talk to a nonbinary person specifically, you can always ask for, or email, me or one of our other nonbinary team members, like Ruby or Jacob), but if you also like the company of books, here are a few books I like from nonbinary writers, about nonbinary identities and thought, relevant self-care or help sorting things out for yourself, and a couple of my favorite nonbinary or trans balms for the soul.
- Valerie Jaharis
Historically, trans people and disabled people have had vocal training to change the way their voices sound; sometimes by choice and sometimes by way of strong culture pressure of what a gender and the voice of a person whose gender that is “should” sound like. Scarleteen volunteer Val was thrilled to sit down with a teacher who approaches the voice completely differently; not in the pursuit of “normal” or with an attitude of “fixing” but rather in the pursuit of uplifting self-expression and showing people the power of the tools their body has to express themselves.
- Siân Jones
Hi Sam! This is a great question. I love it for two reasons: first, because learning about feminism seems like a pretty great use for the internet, but far more importantly because you’re questioning the things you are reading and looking for additional perspectives so you can make your own mind up…
Hello! If you’re here then you, like us, are excited and ready for Scarleteen’s Annual Digital Pride Celebration! We hosted an online, digital celebration last year, and are continuing to do so for a number of reasons. For starters, while the COVID-19 pandemic is in a very different (and decidedly…
- Talya Honebeek
When you gain weight and want to talk about it – whatever your feelings about it are – with partners or others you’re in intimate relationships with, how can you do that, especially in a world where so few people are equipped with the skills to talk about weight in healthy, sensitive, supportive ways?
- Lisa Laman
Being autistic, some things just haven’t come as naturally for me as they seem to for other people. Unfortunately, these have included hallmarks of American life often used to symbolize being “an adult” like driving on my own or getting my first paid job. But human beings are not on a strict timetable to do all the same things at the same time. This is just as true of dating like anything else. Just because you (or I) haven’t been actively dating when a lot of other people in your life have doesn’t make you (or me) a failure. You’re just on your own timetable. So am I.
TSER offers a number of services, which they list on their website as: “We speak at conferences, train teachers, collaborate with other advocacy organizations, host the only national Trans Youth Leadership Summit, support trans-related events, provide leadership training for trans youth, host…
- Sam Wall
One of my favorite parts of Pride is watching queer stories and media be centered and shared throughout the month, which is why I put out a call to our wonderful Scarleteam to share their favorite pieces of queer media! The resulting recommendations are a great mix of books, podcasts, and T.V. shows…
- Adam England
If you’re a bisexual guy and you haven’t been with other guys yet, the idea might seem a little daunting, for a number of reasons. The reality doesn’t have to be so tricky, however, despite the worries you might have.
A site offering resources, educational information, advice, and digital care packages for queer and trans folks. It includes a subsection called “My Kid is Gay,” which is aimed at families of queer and trans youth.
- Caitlyn Tivy PT, DPT, OCS
Here because you or your partner(s) have experienced pain with anal sex, whether multiple times or just once? You’re in the right place!
- Gabriel Leão
In an exclusive interview with Scarleteen, Amnesty International Argentina Executive Director Mariela Belski, spoke about the road to the recent abortion legalization in Argentina, sex education in the South-American country and remembering the case of the child that acted as a catalyst to the changes the country has recently made.
- Daniel Hall
Relationships, like gender and sexuality, don’t fit into a binary. The phrase queer platonic, which comes from the asexual community, means a deep and meaningful intimate relationship which isn’t based on sex. You can have this with anyone – no matter their gender or sexuality. Perhaps if the term were more normalised (I hadn’t heard of it before researching this article), more people would be comfortable with such a relationship.
- Ellis Schwamm
I’d like to have a frank discussion with you about where these anti-trans bills come from, what you can do to be informed about the rhetoric surrounding them, and how you can affirm yourself and practice self-care while you may hear and feel so many people being non-supportive or outright hateful about trans and gender-nonconforming people.
- the Scarleteam
Are you an independent sex educator? We know all about that hustle! We’d like to try and make it a little easier by helping you promote yourself on social media every week. Find out more about #IndieSexEd Sundays!