Despite the initial shame, guilt, name-calling, jokes, and fear related to disclosure, my STI presented me with a chance to love myself more deeply. It gave me a chance to sit with myself, who I thought myself to be, who I thought I was going to become, and who I really was.
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- Lisa Laman
Just because you face your own set of specific challenges doesn’t mean you get a free pass to discount the humanity of someone else.
An upbeat, educational series for kids about LGBTQA+ identities and issues. Topics include identity, queer history, and activism.
- Emily Joy Allison-Hearn
If you grew up steeped in purity culture, it can be easy to see pregnancy as an automatic punishment for any sexual behavior. Here’s how you can counteract those beliefs.
- Eva Sweeney
People often have day-to-day coping mechanisms to help manage their spasticity, but what do you do when you have spasticity and want to have sex?
- Cass Ball
Fantasy is an important part of our relationships with ourselves and our sexual desires. But it can also be a source of shame. How can we find ways to reconnect with our sexual fantasies and create a healthy relationship with desire.
- Thomas MacAulay Millar
The news is full of the wrong ways to try to have sex. Forever we’ve seen high profile men – almost always men – chasing people for sex, abusively. For the last few years, some high-profile men have been held at least a little accountable for it, which means it is not always swept under the rug anymore. But now that the abuse is more visible, if you stare into that abyss long enough, it might start to stare back at you. You could end up lying on your bed wondering if being a guy while being horny is somehow inherently tainted and gross. Most of us want to find someone or a few someones, for relationships or hookups, but right now, looking at some of that foulness, it might feel like trying to find a partner is a minefield of red flags because men’s sexuality is inextricably abusive. It isn’t.
This website helps people locate nearby abortion services. The search function can sort by distance, country, treatment methods (surgical or medical), anesthetic used (general or local), and late-term abortion services. They also provide useful links on transportation routes and methods and general…
Abortion Support Network helps people who need to access safe abortions. “We provide information on clinics, travel and accommodation, and provide financial assistance to help with costs for those who need it. We do this for women and pregnant people resident in Ireland, Northern Ireland, the Isle…
- Viola Stefanello
Let’s say one day you find out you’re pregnant. And let’s say that after considering your options – carrying the pregnancy to term and becoming a parent, adoption, or abortion – you’ve decided that the best choice for you is to terminate your pregnancy. That’s fine! Depending on where you live, though, accessing abortion care could be an issue. This guide is here to help you figure out how to access the care you need.
- Jocelyn Anderson
I know that isn’t news to anyone, but I think we forget that sometimes when trying to help our friends or family members who are going through it. We expect them to act “rationally,” like we would, or like we want them to. But sexual assault is traumatic, and making decisions during and after trauma is complicated. Decisions about who to talk to - the police, a healthcare provider, a friend, a teacher - can feel incredibly complicated. Are they going to believe me? Are they going to listen to me? Are they going to call the police even though I don’t want that? What is going to happen next?
- Robyn Swirling
What is sexual harassment likely to look like in your life, or the lives of your friends? And what can you actually do about it, whether you’re the target of it, trying to avoid harming people yourself, or you’re the friend of someone who’s being harassed at work?
NoTeenShame is on a mission to improve policy and eradicate the stigma that negatively impacts young parents’ access to quality healthcare, education, and community support. They create a space where young parents can talk about young parenthood without being judged, stereotyped, or shamed for our…
- Mo Ranyart
This sounds like a frustrating situation, and I’m sorry this side effect of your testosterone has made things so much trickier in this one respect, but in case it helps to have a reminder: your lack of interest in masturbation or sex doesn’t mean there’s something wrong with you, and I’m sorry to…
FORGE is a national transgender anti-violence organization offering services to trans, non-binary, and otherwise gender non-conforming individuals. Resources include referrals to trans-competent therapists, peer listervs, and self-help guides for survivors.
Pride Counseling offers various online or otherwise remote forms of counseling to individuals within the LGBTQA community. Counselors specialize in working with queer and trans populations, and each individual is matched with a counselor based upon their specific needs.
A blog offering advice on a variety of topics, including relationships (of all kinds), abuse, boundary setting, and how to have tough conversations.
A map from the Guttmacher Institute that is regularly updated. It shows what the parent involvement laws in regards to abortion in each state.
Autostraddle is an online magazine and social network for lesbian, bisexual, and queer women and nonbinary people that offers a wide range of topics – dating, sex, identity, bodies, food, books, music, crafts, the works! – and progressive feminist online community. Much of its content is very teen…
A web-series about sexuality, sexual health, and relationships, hosted by Eva Bloom. The videos are queer and pleasure-inclusive, evidence-based, and feminist.
Every Body Curious is a fun and illuminating web series for young people (and their parents!) that explores the birds and the bees with ease in today’s digital landscape. It’s a safe setting where leading sex educators answer real questions from real kids, and open and honest conversations about…