What’s sex? What’s sexuality? How do people experience and actively express their sexualities, by themselves, with partners or both? How can we take part in sex in ways that are wanted and consensual, physically and emotionally safe and enjoyable for everyone? How do you figure out what you like? How can you communicate about sex? How do you deal with feelings like fear, shame, anxiety, dysphoria and other body image issues? How do you create the kind of sexual life you want? You’ll find the answers to all these and more here.
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Bea
I have been taking celexa for my anxiety disorder for a few months now. I feel like my desire for sex is basically gone since. Before, I would self-gratify sometimes when I did feel desire, but now I...
Advice
Did pills make me ace?
- s.e. smith
Article
Breathe: Risks, Realities, and Safer Alternatives to Choking and Breath Play
- Heather Corinna
- Giselle Woodley
Articles and Advice in this area:
Article
- Sara Rowe Mount
Stereotypes and false beliefs about the sexualities of cis men aren’t exclusive to conservative circles. They have been pervasive all over the place for decades, even in the medical profession and scientific literature.
Article
- Imogen Mchugh
Mobility aids help you lead a fulfilling, independent life. Shouldn’t they do the same in the bedroom?
Article
- Aurélia Gervasoni
Opening up to yourself and to another person physically may take time, but it is absolutely possible.
Article
- Aurélia Gervasoni
You may have a curiosity to see what a new existence of desire can offer you, and you may find in it a source of confidence — within yourself, and with partners.
Advice
- s.e. smith
Hi Bea, First of all, congratulations on taking a big step towards managing your anxiety. I know firsthand how hard it is to reach out for help and talk about treatment options and I’m proud of you! I also unfortunately know firsthand how side effects from psychiatric medications can affect your…
Article
- Maya Walsh-Little
A journey doesn’t need to have a destination. Approaching masturbation with a curiosity-focused mindset can help you learn more about yourself.
Article
- Sara Traynor
Recent studies show that, when it comes to sex, there are overlapping issues that ADHDers share.
Article
- Hans Lindahl
“How do I enjoy sex?” is hardly a question that’s unique to intersex people, but some of the answers to that question are different than they might be for people who aren’t intersex.
Advice
- Kelli Dunham RN BSN
Lilly writes in to ask about any health, safety or long-term risks of using water in the shower for masturbation.
Article
- Heather Corinna
- Giselle Woodley
There’s a lot to unpack with sexual choking. Here’s some science, including some real dangers, and some guidance, to help anyone make informed decisions to ensure safer, healthy, consensual and mutually-enjoyable experiences.
