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The Answers (For Now)

A series of personal stories about questioning⁠ & coming to understand one’s sexual orientation⁠, curated by Mo Ranyart.

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    If you’re unsure of your sexual orientation, that uncertainty can feel overwhelming. You’re not alone in this feeling, though! We’ve compiled the experiences of several people who’ve gone through that questioning process in the hope that their experiences might be relatable or comforting.

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    Asher talks about how an unhealthy relationship lead them to some questions about, and exploration of, their sexual orientation.

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    Ben shares the moments and realizations that helped him understand his sexual orientation.

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    Gerbil shares how gender transition set him on the path to a new understanding of his sexual orientation.

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    Jack talks about the process of figuring out their queer identity.

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    Mo shares their own journey in understanding their sexual orientation, including how a certain cult classic brought them clarity.

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    Riley shares how their own understanding of their identity is still in progress.

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    Riss shares how reconnecting with old friends and looking at her own faith in new ways were important parts of understanding her identity.

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    Ruby shares the experiences that helped them make sense of their queer identity.

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    Sam shares how denial, internet searches, and queer media were all part of her learning about her sexual orientation.

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    Sebastian talks about the moments that helped them better understand their identity.

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    Wyn talks about how giving up on defining your identity can be freeing.

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