Sex should never feel required, but it can be hard to speak up about it, so we’ve shared some tips on recognizing and talking about expectation in the bedroom.
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Articles and Advice in this area:
- Heather Corinna
Talking about sex openly, honestly, and often is how we find out what each of us wants and needs.
- Heather Corinna
When you’re not on the same page about the role of sex in your relationship, understanding why and how you got there will help you talk about it.
- Heather Corinna
A sexual relationship is one where where expressing and exploring sex and sexuality together is a main characteristic—but every relationship is different.
- Isabel Atkinson
If you get activated during sexual experiences, a safety plan can help you set boundaries, get grounded, and advocate for yourself.
- s.e. smith
You have to put on your own oxygen mask before helping others.
- Lisa Laman
Turning a dating relationship into a friendship isn’t a downgrade: It’s the start of an exciting new chapter together.
- s.e. smith
If fantasies have you upset, please know that they’re (almost never) harmful—in fact, they’re a great way to safely explore your sexuality.
- Heather Corinna
The good reactions…and how they might not always feel so good.
- Heather Corinna
Anyone you are disclosing to should respond to you with acceptance and belief, empathy, encouragement and support. Many people will.