Sexual Identity

The way we and others understand and experience who we are based on all or some of our sexualities, including things like sexual orientation, relationship models, what sexual activities or practices we’re into and more.

Articles and Advice in this area:

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  • Gerbil

Gerbil shares how gender transition set him on the path to a new understanding of his sexual orientation.

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  • Sam Wall

Sam shares how denial, internet searches, and queer media were all part of her learning about her sexual orientation.

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  • Riss

Riss shares how reconnecting with old friends and looking at her own faith in new ways were important parts of understanding her identity.

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  • Sebastian Jimenez

Sebastian talks about the moments that helped them better understand their identity.

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  • Riley Johnson

Riley shares how their own understanding of their identity is still in progress.

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  • Ruby Seago

Ruby shares the experiences that helped them make sense of their queer identity.

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  • Mo Ranyart

Mo shares their own journey in understanding their sexual orientation, including how a certain cult classic brought them clarity.

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  • Jack Ralls

Jack talks about the process of figuring out their queer identity.

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  • Asher

Asher talks about how an unhealthy relationship lead them to some questions about, and exploration of, their sexual orientation.

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  • Mo Ranyart

If you’re unsure of your sexual orientation, that uncertainty can feel overwhelming. You’re not alone in this feeling, though! We’ve compiled the experiences of several people who’ve gone through that questioning process in the hope that their experiences might be relatable or comforting.