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Creating Consent Culture: Ten Questions With Kitty Stryker
We're some of consent's biggest fans around here, so we're thrilled to have gotten a chance to interview Kitty Stryker about the new anthology she spearheaded, Ask: Building Consent Culture.
Wheelchair, Bound? Kink and Disability
Being disabled doesn't cut you out of the kink scene — but sometimes you need to take some special precautions.
Your Body is Not a Sex Object: Devotees and Disability
Some people say they're "sexually attracted to disability." That's objectifying, and you deserve to be loved as a whole person.
Sex on the Brain: Sex and Autism, Mental Illness, and Other Cognitive Diversity
What happens when sex gets tangled up with your brain's wiring?
Should I feel guilty (for being afraid to say no)?
Anonymous asks:
So im 17 years old and have been dating my boyfriend (he's 18) for just over a year and a half. I will admit we have sex very regularly, about 10 times a week, but the problem is, i dont know how to say no to sex! During our relationship, ive only EVER said no to sex ONCE! And he got so angry and upset about it....
Baby Fat, Or Why the Ugly Duckling is a Rubbish Story.
Anonymous asks:
I've always been pudgy and although I've always struggled with it I've recently learned to acknowledge that hey! I can look average and I have fairly nice parts. But I have a really large stomach, I mean, I try to eat pretty healthily I don't exercise as much as I should but I know loads of people with the same lifestyle but small stomachs....
Should I Have Sex To Fit In & Keep Him From Leaving?
Anonymous asks:
At my school many of the girls want to have, or have had, sex. They explain it as if it is an act that declares your love to the world for someone. Someone told me that they would want to lose their virginity before high school and I was a bit shocked when they said that to me. I honestly don't want to have sex until I'm much older and not in high school....
Rebel Well: Relationships & Sex
Rebel Well: a Starter Survival Guide to a Trumped America for Teens and Emerging Adults: guidance and support for your relationships and your sexual life in troubled times.
Puppy Love: The Do's & Don'ts of Crushes (With Help from a Very Small Dog)
What to do, and what to avoid like the plague, when you're crushing on someone hard.
My boyfriend keeps asking about my sexual history!
Anonymous asks:
Ever since I opened up to my boyfriend about my sexual history he won't stop talking about it! At first I didn't mind him asking because he was very understanding and non judgemental about it so it made me feel more comfortable with him. But over time he soon became obsessive about it asking me every night to tell him about each experience in detail....