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Significant joy or comfort with one’s biological sex, gender identity, or expression.

Soft, flesh-colored growths on or near the penis/vulva, caused by some types of HPV (human papilloma virus).

“Undetectable = Untransmissible”, a slogan that reminds us that when the amount of HIV present in a person’s blood is too low to detect, it is also too low to transmit during sex.

A system of beliefs, attitudes, and structures that assumes everyone is cisgender until “proven” otherwise, and that holds up being cisgender as what is normal.

Until recently, a mythical one-horned woodland creature. In the context of sex and dating, someone an established couple, and usually a couple made of a cisgender man and woman, is seeking to add as a third for sexual play or as an ongoing partner.

Being very self-aware, in one’s own head, and focused on orgasm or other aspects of sexual performance during sexual activity, rather than being more fully immersed in the experience and focused on pleasure and, when there’s a partner involved, that partner and mutual pleasure and connection. It can…

Disclosing someone’s gender identity, sexual orientation, HIV status etc. without their permission.