This is a web comic by Isabella Rotman showing how to make your own strap-on harness, originally published on Oh Joy Sex Toyexternal link, opens in a new tab and republished here with permission.
DIY Full Cover Harness copyright Isabella Rotman 2015
At least once every couple of days, someone posts or writes into Scarleteen reporting that vaginal entry – usually intercourse or manual vaginal sex, and usually (but not always) with cisgender male partners – is painful, uncomfortable, or unfulfilling for them. Whatever sort of vaginal entry we’re talking about – with fingers, a penis or a dildo, with partners of any gender – not only doesn’t have to be painful, it really shouldn’t be. More than that, any kind of sex shouldn’t be about a lack of pain, but about the presence of pleasure.
