s.e. smith

We’re talking about talking: namely, how to talk with sexual partners about any physical effects that you have experienced as a survivor of sexual trauma.

Right-wing and conservative movements are pushing the idea that sex and sexual media are bad for you. That’s disinformation, and here’s what you need to know.

You have to put on your own oxygen mask before helping others.

If fantasies have you upset, please know that they’re (almost never) harmful—in fact, they’re a great way to safely explore your sexuality.

You’ve seen headlines about grooming. Here’s what it is (and isn’t).

A house isn’t built in a day. Neither is a relationship.

If you’re imagining a future for yourself without breasts, you’re not alone—and affirming care to help you feel good in the skin you’re in is for everyone!

Finding your sense of self can be hard. That doesn’t mean you shouldn’t try.

A partner telling you not to use toys is engaging in controlling behavior. You have agency over your own sexuality.

In stressful times, it’s important to find healthy ways to cope with and express big feelings—and support friends who are going through it too.