masculinity

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  • Heather Corinna

(Anonymous' question continued) Especially, when I consider anal sex because, well, why would they want to do that, other than increase their own pleasure. The problem is, I actually enjoy anal, I just... these days, I hate the idea of letting anyone have it. So, basically I'm being ridiculously...

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  • Heather Corinna

Throw a rock at any sex education site or service, ask what the most common question we get is from men and we'll all tell you that it's about penis size. We don't imagine with this piece we'll never get asked again, but we're hoping these answers get you guys better filled in so you can feel good about yourselves, your penises and whatever you do (or don't) do with them.

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  • Heather Corinna

Honestly? The biggest fantasy driving the bus here is that the length of time your erection lasts has much to do with your partner's pleasure (or yours, to some degree) at all. That isn't to say that you won't likely have sex partners -- some, plenty, even all of them -- who don't enjoy sex that...

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  • Heather Corinna

When a person, behaving in a healthy way, chooses not to tolerate a certain dynamic in a relationship they dislike or which makes them unhappy, what they choose to do is set a limit. If that limit is not respected by a partner, they then terminate the relationship and potentially contact with that...

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  • Susie Tang

Hi Miguel, it looks like you're fighting some serious peer pressure. Despite all of our progress towards gender equality and rights, we still have some pretty wacked double-standards in our society. There's the double-standard that says that women who have lots of sex are whores, and men who abstain...