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  • Heather Corinna

Feeling like you didn't "get anything in return" sounds very troubling to me. That strikes me as a huge deal, and like something that's probably bigger and about more than sex being a first-time for you and not for him. Someone with partners before you isn't limited in their ability to do their part...

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  • Heather Corinna

Is what you want from sex with a partner realistic, or is it impossible, unlikely or out-to-lunch? Take a trip with us to go visit our pal reality.

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  • Heather Corinna

I understand why you're feeling heartbroken. I'm so sorry this is how things have been going for you and that you're hurting so much. I strongly doubt you were stupid, and I want to remind you that this isn't something you did by yourself: both of you chose to add sex to your relationship, not just...

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  • Sarah Riley

It sounds to me like it's time for you to think about what you really want right now in this relationship and then have a good ole' fashioned sit-down talk with your partner here, honey! First off, what exactly is it that you want in this relationship? Forget for a moment what he may or may not be...