communication

(Mostly) everything (okay, okay, not mostly everything, but a lot) you wanted to know about polyamory.

You can do it (with disabilities)!

Approaching consent through a disability lens opens up new opportunities in all kinds of relationships.

Sometimes it feels like we should be selling tickets to the freak show. Here’s how to tell people you’re not a circus act.

If you want to explore various aspects of kink — or whatever you want to call it — there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that, and it can be fun and one way to build rich, fulfilling relationships.

You are who you are and who you are is great! But sometimes a neurodivergent brain needs a little extra care and feeding for healthy relationships.

You do know how to say “no” to sex. The issue is that you’re afraid to say it, and that’s a big red flag. I don’t know how your boyfriend reacted the one time you said no, but it was clearly intense enough that you’ve done the calculus and decided it’s better to have sex you don’t want than face…

Being disabled doesn’t mean you can’t have a rewarding and awesome sex life.

You’re considering or have made it to therapy. Now how do you do your part to benefit from it?

You’ve got a few layers to this question, so let’s peel them off and look at them one by one. Let’s get “is this normal” out of the way first. Normal is a deeply unhelpful concept when it comes to sex. We can talk about how common certain behaviors or desires are, although even then that may not be…