genderqueer

I am bigender. I identify as both a woman and as nonbinary, and I use she/they pronouns. I wanted to write about how I came to understand my gender to do my part to showcase how unique each experience can be.

So you’ve come out. Now what? Today we’re all about logistics, because coming out, and socially transitioning, is an ever-evolving process. First, let’s head to the schoolyard.

When everyone seems to be so preoccupied with labels, it’s hard to really explain to someone that you’re a ‘genderqueer-gendernonconforming-demisexual-‘gay’-transman’ and not have them look at you funny.