acceptance
Hi, Bi Guy: Coming Out to Your Girlfriend
Libido and Lockdown
A Series of Letters I Wish I Could Send to My Younger Queer Self
Body Talk: Listening To and Learning From Your Chronic Pain
How To Actually Date Yourself
A Manifesto on Pleasure and Self-Love for We With an STI
Guía para tutores (progenitores) de chiques trans o género no binario
Many trans or gender non-conforming youth come to us looking for support they're having difficulty finding, or don't feel safe looking for elsewhere. We know from talking with these users that one of the biggest factors in their overall well-being -- and how hard or easy all of this is on them -- is how supported and safe they feel in their identities when around their families.
This piece is created with an eye towards how can you support them while dealing with any emotions you might have.
How to Reconnect With Your Body In Spite of the Impact of White Supremacy
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What should you do when someone says no to or otherwise refuses or declines your romantic or sexual gestures or asks Accept it and stop making those gestures or asks. That's the right answer every single time: just accept someone's no and then back right off.
Asking or otherwise pressing over and over isn't the right answer. "Not giving up" (which often looks a whole lot like harassment) isn't the right answer. Trying to get them to change their mind isn't the right answer. Trying to get them to change their mind through their friends or family also isn't the right answer. And while it should be obvious, we so sadly know that it isn't: no kind of violence is ever the right answer.