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- Fri May 31, 2024 8:29 am
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: having feelings for a friend that ive only known for a few weeks. what do i do?
- Replies: 5
- Views: 167
Re: having feelings for a friend that ive only known for a few weeks. what do i do?
Hi SillyMcGoof_! Opening up conversations with parents around sex and sexuality can be difficult, but it can also be a great way to get the support you need for this new period in your life where partnered sex is something you may be more seriously considering. One great source to get started in mak...
- Fri May 31, 2024 7:09 am
- Forum: Bodies
- Topic: I think I have vaginismus. Can I start dilating before I see an OBGYN?
- Replies: 7
- Views: 213
Re: I think I have vaginismus. Can I start dilating before I see an OBGYN?
Hi Jay27, One option can be to set up a consultation appointment before an appointment with any physical exam. This may help you ease some of that anxiety and begin a conversation with your doctor about your anxieties around intense pain during pelvic exams. This is a time in which you and your prov...
- Thu May 30, 2024 2:07 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: I do not get any sexual pleasure from sex or masturbation.
- Replies: 9
- Views: 251
Re: I do not get any sexual pleasure from sex or masturbation.
Hi TahjTahj, When you met with this gynecologist did they complete any kind of physical exam? Or are you looking for a more specific exam for your concerns specifically? You know your body better than anyone else, and because you feel so strongly it sounds like a good idea to reach out again and ask...
- Thu May 30, 2024 1:47 pm
- Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
- Topic: Wanting a higher sex drive and appreciation of sexy stuff
- Replies: 2
- Views: 79
Re: Wanting a higher sex drive and appreciation of sexy stuff
Hi ConfusedGrape, This is not a weird question at all it is incredibly common for a couple's libidos to change and alternate throughout different stages of a relationship. It can be a source of anxiety for many people, but with communication, it can become another wonderful chance to grow and learn ...
- Thu May 16, 2024 1:16 pm
- Forum: Sexual Health
- Topic: weird(??) discharge
- Replies: 1
- Views: 272
Re: weird(??) discharge
Hi axolotlperson, Discharge can change for a variety of reasons. For example around ovulation the discharge can become more thin and clear, while later in your cycle it is normal for the discharge to thicken or change in color to more white or yellow. One source I can give you to give some more cont...
- Sun May 12, 2024 11:49 am
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: Sex after use of menstrual cup
- Replies: 1
- Views: 124
Re: Sex after use of menstrual cup
Hi MariaSjohn, The idea that inserting something into the vagina will change its tightness or make it loose is a myth. The vagina is made up of many muscles that are made to expand and contract again. Using a menstrual cup would not have any effect on the "tightness" of your vagina. Anothe...
- Sun May 12, 2024 11:41 am
- Forum: Sexual Health
- Topic: I'm new to masturbation but it's still like weird idk
- Replies: 1
- Views: 181
Re: I'm new to masturbation but it's still like weird idk
Hi Urlocalclown, The most important thing about masturbation is doing what feels good for you personally. It is a normal part of life and a great way to explore your sexuality in a safe and personal way. When you say that touching yourself grosses you out, is it that it physically is not pleasurable...
- Sun May 12, 2024 9:44 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: A normal or abusive friendship
- Replies: 5
- Views: 259
Re: A normal or abusive friendship
Hi Mika.m, This situation is not an abusive friendship, but depending on the way you communicate it, your friend may still feel negatively or objectified. One question to start is how do you want your relationship with this person to change? Would you like to interact sexually with her or is there a...
- Sun May 12, 2024 9:30 am
- Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
- Topic: Attracted to my gay friend as a transmasc
- Replies: 21
- Views: 1001
Re: Attracted to my gay friend as a transmasc
Hi Trixieandtoast, It is clear you have put a lot of thought into drafting these texts, which I commend you for. Before I discuss the draft I wanted to quickly touch on your point of sex being "way less of a deal" to him rather than to you. No matter where we are in our journey with sex an...
- Fri May 10, 2024 2:20 pm
- Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
- Topic: Attracted to my gay friend as a transmasc
- Replies: 21
- Views: 1001
Re: Attracted to my gay friend as a transmasc
Hi Trixieandtoast, I am glad the responses by KierC and CaitlinEve have been helpful for you during this process. Touching on planning your conversation, texting is definitely an option you can try and see if that is a comfortable option for you. If you feel like talking in person is too overwhelmin...
- Thu May 02, 2024 8:04 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Just broken up, help!
- Replies: 7
- Views: 991
Re: Just broken up, help!
Hi Liore, I'm glad the resource provided was so helpful to you and allowed you to do some self reflection. Break ups are very disrupting and can raise a lot of negative feelings and self doubt, but through caring for yourself healing is possible. When you see him in a few days will it be a social en...
- Tue Apr 30, 2024 7:59 am
- Forum: Sexual Identity
- Topic: hate myself for being attracted to men
- Replies: 4
- Views: 3939
Re: hate myself for being attracted to men
Hi Lyle Lanley, I want to start by saying I understand your feelings and I do not want to invalidate them at all. It is normal to feel strong emotions about gendered violence, gendered abuse, and the way patriarchy hurts people especially when we have experienced it ourselves. However when it starts...
- Tue Apr 30, 2024 6:39 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: guy im my class
- Replies: 5
- Views: 1844
Re: guy im my class
Hi Ms. Candy! Do you have any mutual friends? Mutual friends can be a great way to organize something in a group so you can get to know each other. Maybe the male friend you spoke about in your first post? Like Sam said something casual and low stakes is always good for a first hang, like getting so...
- Tue Apr 30, 2024 6:35 am
- Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
- Topic: Sex questions
- Replies: 1
- Views: 1274
Re: Sex questions
Hi Amazingstar344, welcome to the boards! To start, it is totally normal to experience varied amounts of arousal after something like sexual trauma. There is nothing wrong with you, it is just your body processing how to feel safe again after the violation of consent and safety. I am very sorry this...
- Fri Apr 26, 2024 8:01 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Dating, being taken advantage of and saying no
- Replies: 3
- Views: 5030
Re: Dating, being taken advantage of and saying no
Hi Whispermae, I am so sorry you have been dealing with this. It is so difficult when we feel like we don't know how or are unable to set these boundaries, but you deserve to have touch and interaction that is pleasurable, safe, and consensual. We are here to discuss ways to keep you safe in future ...
- Wed Apr 24, 2024 7:40 am
- Forum: Sexual Health
- Topic: Loss of Sensitivity(?)
- Replies: 6
- Views: 5094
Re: Loss of Sensitivity(?)
Hi CaswasHere, Many things can effect libido and sexual response, one being our mental health. Changes such as increased feelings of anxiety or depression can affect other things such as our sleep and eating patterns, all of which can have effects on our bodies. When these changes happen it can be v...
- Wed Apr 24, 2024 7:26 am
- Forum: Pregnancy and Parenting
- Topic: Condom Broke
- Replies: 3
- Views: 4042
Re: Condom Broke
Hi Brendie, So if there was a condom failure but no ejaculation, the risk for pregnancy is low but not zero. Is this person you had sex with on any type of birth control? If she is not it is up to her what her next steps are, but if she wants chance of pregnancy as low as possible emergency contrace...
- Wed Apr 24, 2024 7:06 am
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: How do i tell her my feelings without ruining the friendship
- Replies: 2
- Views: 3492
Re: How do i tell her my feelings without ruining the friendship
Hi -Carson-, Dealing with crushes and feelings can be stressful, but it sounds like you have put a lot of thought into this situation. One intimidating thing about discussing feelings for another person is we never know how another person feels for us unless we openly communicate it to them. One thi...
- Wed Apr 24, 2024 6:44 am
- Forum: Et Cetera
- Topic: Should I see the doctor?
- Replies: 3
- Views: 3727
Re: Should I see the doctor?
Hi CashWasHere, I am so sorry you are experiencing this! Period cramps are the worst. If you are experiencing an increased level on pain during your period very suddenly, I would advise you seek medical advice. As well if you period cramps are not responding to your usual dose of pain medication and...
- Wed Apr 24, 2024 6:31 am
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: Using Your Fingers
- Replies: 1
- Views: 2799
Re: Using Your Fingers
Hi Himmingbirdd, For anal masturbation a couple things to keep in mind are first making sure your hands are clean and your fingernails are cut down short, this is for safety but also so that the insertion is comfortable as possible. Another factor that can be very useful is introducing lubricant. Lu...
- Wed Apr 24, 2024 6:13 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: About sexual noises...
- Replies: 14
- Views: 4222
Re: About sexual noises...
Dear MistahCFS, You are correct, as long as both parties are having pleasurable and consensual sex it does not matter how they choose to verbally express their pleasure. These expressions will sound different for everyone and there is no one right or wrong way to express pleasure or enjoy these expr...
- Wed Apr 17, 2024 8:13 am
- Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
- Topic: Periods
- Replies: 6
- Views: 3692
Re: Periods
Hi Chocolate Moose,
Those commercials are often for the different amounts of flow during a persons period, which can be heavier or lighter. When someone has a higher flow, that means more blood and sometimes they prefer a larger or more absorptive tampon. Let us know if you have any other questions.
Those commercials are often for the different amounts of flow during a persons period, which can be heavier or lighter. When someone has a higher flow, that means more blood and sometimes they prefer a larger or more absorptive tampon. Let us know if you have any other questions.
- Wed Apr 17, 2024 6:53 am
- Forum: Pregnancy and Parenting
- Topic: Possible pregnancy?
- Replies: 5
- Views: 7430
Re: Possible pregnancy?
Hi Trvllver, It seems as though this has been very stressful for you. Would you say you experience genera anxiety or is this something you feel especially anxious or worried about often? One source I can recommend to start with is https://www.scarleteen.com/about/pregnancy-scare-resources. There are...
- Wed Apr 17, 2024 6:31 am
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: I can't orgasm if I'm not thinking about my kink
- Replies: 3
- Views: 3139
Re: I can't orgasm if I'm not thinking about my kink
Hi Shimotsuki, I am glad you found something so pleasurable to explore in your sexuality, as well as a partner that is open and respectful while exploring this with you. I just want to reiterate that just because something is out of the "normal" during sex, doesn't make the sex or the plea...
- Thu Apr 11, 2024 7:20 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Small penis
- Replies: 1
- Views: 1500
Re: Small penis
Hi Felipe, It seems like the thread before on here did not help ease your worries about penis size? I will reiterate to you that penis size is something that hinges on the myth of the type of macho-masculine man every person who is attracted to men is desired to. This is a myth because masculinity, ...