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Skater25
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How do I stop a boner in public so people won't notice
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Unread post by Emma »

Hi Skater, erections can happen pretty randomly and can't be "stopped" (unless it's an erection caused by a certain stimulus that can be removed/stopped). If you're really self-conscious about erections being visible through your bottoms (even though they typically aren't) you could consider wearing tighter underwear, thicker-fabric pants, or a jockstrap if it really drives you nuts. Don't worry though, pretty much everyone with a penis will have a public erection in their lifetime, often for no real reason, and it's not a disaster!
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Skater25
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Re: public

Unread post by Skater25 »

But most of the time in pe I see this one hot girl's butt and breast and then I get a instant hard boner that is notifiable and I can't hide it
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Re: public

Unread post by Jacob »

Hi Skater,

If it's just a bodily reaction there isn't really a whole lot you can do about it... but I understand it can be embarassing anyway! Have other people said anything to you about it, or do you think it's just you who feels worried?
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Don't see why they call it lonesome.
I'm never lonesome when I go there." Connie Converse - Talkin' Like You
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