admitting feelings
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admitting feelings
so, i’ve been talking to this boy for about a week. we’ve known each other for longer, but “talking” for a week. we’ve been flirty and have both been talking about missing relationships, that he likes flirting with me, etc. i’m starting to like him, we both have a lot in common and we talk literally 24/7. i don’t know how soon is too soon, but i don’t want to scare him off. do i wait? do i tell him? what do i do?
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Re: admitting feelings
Hi avaiara,
You could certainly wait if you wanted to, since taking even more time to get to know each other could give you a sense of whether you want to act on your feelings for him. That being said, since it sounds like there's some mutual flirting going on, I don't think it's out of bounds to ask if he's interested in exploring a more romantic relationship with you. Do you feel like you could have that conversation with him?
You could certainly wait if you wanted to, since taking even more time to get to know each other could give you a sense of whether you want to act on your feelings for him. That being said, since it sounds like there's some mutual flirting going on, I don't think it's out of bounds to ask if he's interested in exploring a more romantic relationship with you. Do you feel like you could have that conversation with him?
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