hihi!! im so sorry that i’ve been making so many posts lately, im just constantly thinking of new questions!
so first some info thats relevant to what im about to say in some way or another: we’re a system and uninterested in partnered sex (atleast in the outerworld given that we are a system and sometimes do stuff in the innerworld), which has been mentioned in previous posts but i just felt like i should mention those things here aswell
so basically as the title says, we’ve been wondering if theres any ways we can make masturbation more intimate for us. there definitely is a sense of intimacy when we do masturbate, partially due to our plurality, and partially because of other stuff aswell, but its a bit difficult to explain. we really want it to be a more intimate experience though but we’re not sure how.
we’ve tried touching other parts of our body such as our chest and mouth but it just feels a bit awkward, and its also hard for us to focus on touching multiple things at once while also looking at porn on our phone due to us most likely having adhd. also its a bit hard to “set the mood” due to how our room is (its not very sexy to say the least lol).
we really want it to feel more intimate and for us to feel more involved in it but we’re not sure how. does anyone have any ideas on things we can do to help with this? (specifically taking our plurality into account bc that plays a decent part in all this)
thank you!!! :]