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- Sun Jan 07, 2024 11:03 am
- Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
- Topic: My penis looks different
- Replies: 2
- Views: 5302
Re: My penis looks different
Hi there, Tanc. Chances are good that this is nothing to worry about: more penises have some bend to them when erect than not. It's not because of anything anyone did, it's just because the way erection works (effectively, tubes within the penis filling with blood) and the way that bodies aren't lin...
- Sun Jan 07, 2024 11:01 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Too problematic much?
- Replies: 4
- Views: 1772
Re: Too problematic much?
I hear you, but what I am suggesting is that this isn't a beneficial question to ask or to try and get others to answer. It sounds like you are saying that you struggle with self-worth or self-esteem, and that you feel like relationships or being with someone is some kind of competition where someon...
- Sun Jan 07, 2024 10:49 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Sex life ruined because I don't know my sexuality
- Replies: 10
- Views: 16651
Re: Sex life ruined because I don't know my sexuality
Hi there, Wendy. I tell my girlfriend to stop for a second but she's already been going at it for 30+ mins so she thinks stopping is going to lose all the work she put in if you know what I mean? Is this something she has actually said to you, or is this something you are assuming she thinks or feel...
- Sun Jan 07, 2024 10:35 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Too problematic much?
- Replies: 4
- Views: 1772
Re: Too problematic much?
Hi there, Wanjee. If this is the same relationship you've talked about before, I think we should figure there are a lot more layers to this than this post. However, I would personally suggest never having conversations about who is or has been "the best" person. In most people's lives, the...
- Sun Dec 31, 2023 11:53 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: diy sex toys
- Replies: 1
- Views: 2541
Re: diy sex toys
I would not use a ziploc bag as a barrier. They both don’t offer the kind of real barrier from pathogens condoms do, and they also aren’t a soft enough material to not cause abrasions.
You can get condoms through places like Amazon just like toys, though!
You can get condoms through places like Amazon just like toys, though!
- Thu Dec 28, 2023 7:59 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Can’t masturbate, yet always horny
- Replies: 2
- Views: 5464
Re: Can’t masturbate, yet always horny
I also want to add that most places that ship toys do so in ways that are incredibly discreet. Unless your family members open your mail or packages -- a thing you can ask them not to do anymore, if so -- no one will know what you have ordered.
- Wed Dec 27, 2023 5:57 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Withdrawal Bleeding or Period?
- Replies: 4
- Views: 3910
Re: Withdrawal Bleeding or Period?
The differences here are most likely because you took the BC pills, but ultimately we can’t say for sure.
What we can help you with, though, is no longer having unprotected sex when you clearly don’t want a pregnancy. Would you like help negotiating condom use with your partner?
What we can help you with, though, is no longer having unprotected sex when you clearly don’t want a pregnancy. Would you like help negotiating condom use with your partner?
- Wed Dec 27, 2023 5:52 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Medication and contraception?
- Replies: 1
- Views: 3602
Re: Medication and contraception?
Hey there. I’m afraid I don’t know for sure why it lists that one specifically, save that that may well be the only one that showed any issues in studies. Since it doesn’t list Depo, and since you were prescribed this while you are also prescribed Depo, I would not assume there are any issues. It al...
- Tue Dec 26, 2023 2:17 pm
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: New to the sexual world and only one finger fits into my vagina, afraid this will prevent PIV sex
- Replies: 6
- Views: 8798
Re: New to the sexual world and only one finger fits into my vagina, afraid this will prevent PIV sex
(fantasybaby08: I moved this thread to an area where you can talk to staff and users and deleted the copy of it you made to start a new one with the same questions just because you also wanted user interaction. Now you get both your ongoing conversation and anyone else can chime in if they want.)
- Tue Dec 26, 2023 2:14 pm
- Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
- Topic: New to masturbation and sexual activity (struggling a little)
- Replies: 0
- Views: 18639
Re: New to masturbation and sexual activity (struggling a little)
Hey there: the better way to make that switch is just to move your previous/duplicate thread. I'll do that for you right now!
- Tue Dec 26, 2023 6:40 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Unusual period after EC
- Replies: 2
- Views: 2291
Re: Unusual period after EC
I also want to add that having a period due 7 days after apparent ovulation tells you that your tracker isn't giving you accurate information, because that would be much too soon for a period to come after ovulating. None of those trackers can give very accurate ovulation information, just so you kn...
- Tue Dec 26, 2023 6:27 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Condom fell off when he pulled out and I had cum on inner leg. Help!
- Replies: 6
- Views: 1654
Re: Condom fell off when he pulled out and I had cum on inner leg. Help!
Runmelon, given that you're very clear you don't want to become pregnant, would you also like to talk about other methods you can back up condom use with in the future, ongoing methods rather than EC? I'm happy to walk you through some options, if you like.
- Tue Dec 26, 2023 6:26 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: I don’t think I can reach orgasm?
- Replies: 13
- Views: 9337
Re: I don’t think I can reach orgasm?
Hey there, Arghdaq. So, I'm thinking that it might be that the bigger issue at hand here isn't about what you are or are not doing physically, but what's going on in your head. We can be doing things that have felt amazing in the past, and using sex toys that we love, but if something is afoot psych...
- Tue Dec 26, 2023 5:36 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Can’t Masterbate w/o Squeezing Legs
- Replies: 9
- Views: 2911
Re: Can’t Masterbate w/o Squeezing Legs
You're welcome. I hope that you can feel better about this soon. <3
- Tue Dec 26, 2023 5:34 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: My mom wants to force me to get a virginity test as well as a pregnancy test at the gynecologist
- Replies: 1
- Views: 1543
Re: My mom wants to force me to get a virginity test as well as a pregnancy test at the gynecologist
Hi there, random. I'm having a little bit of trouble ascertaining exactly what the legal rights of a minor in the Philippines are when it comes to this kind of medical treatment, but let me start with what I know for sure first. There is no such thing as "virginity testing," and that's bec...
- Mon Dec 25, 2023 1:33 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Can’t Masterbate w/o Squeezing Legs
- Replies: 9
- Views: 2911
Re: Can’t Masterbate w/o Squeezing Legs
I didn’t tell you this is the only way you will ever masturbate. I said quite the opposite, actually. I think you are stressing about a thing you just don’t need to, truly. You can experiment and explore new things over time: there is rarely only one way anything feels good to someone. But if you’re...
- Mon Dec 25, 2023 9:55 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Scared of dry humping outcome
- Replies: 18
- Views: 16570
Re: Scared of dry humping outcome
I hope that you can start to feel better about this soon.
Re: fingering
Hi there, and welcome to the boards. So, there's no one "right" way for anyone to do any sexual activity, whether someone is using their hands with another person's genitals or doing something else. There's only what does and doesn't feel good to the people involved, and how responsive eve...
- Mon Dec 25, 2023 9:52 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Can’t Masterbate w/o Squeezing Legs
- Replies: 9
- Views: 2911
Re: Can’t Masterbate w/o Squeezing Legs
I think that whenever you explore sex with a partner, you'll discover that there are a lot of things you might do together that create this exact same or a very similar kind of stimulation. Also, people who are okay enough with themselves and us to be good sexual partners won't have issues with the ...
- Sat Dec 23, 2023 6:35 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Anxiety with Penetration
- Replies: 8
- Views: 15032
Re: Anxiety with Penetration
When you are back in school after your break, does your school offer student mental health services, or other services to help students manage stress? If so, how about looking into those for yourself?
- Thu Dec 21, 2023 7:31 am
- Forum: Gender
- Topic: Using they/them
- Replies: 5
- Views: 6105
Re: Using they/them
Again, I would say "are" in the example you gave is what is more common.
- Thu Dec 21, 2023 7:13 am
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: Can’t Orgasm
- Replies: 3
- Views: 7959
Re: Can’t Orgasm
How do you feel about trying to find yourself some real time and space for the next time you masturbate and seeing how much that makes a difference? Too, if you can try to just focus and stay focused on feeling good, rather than on orgasm or otherwise "getting somewhere," that often makes ...
- Thu Dec 21, 2023 7:08 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Delaying masturbation
- Replies: 17
- Views: 15226
Re: Delaying masturbation
Sure thing.
- Thu Dec 21, 2023 7:07 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Scared of dry humping outcome
- Replies: 18
- Views: 16570
Re: Scared of dry humping outcome
I've already answered you about the length of her cycle. I understand you're feeling anxious, but circling back to it again and again is something we know only helps KEEP people in anxiety, rather than helping them out of it. We also need to ask people not to ask us to keep explaining the same thing...
- Thu Dec 21, 2023 7:03 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Delaying masturbation
- Replies: 17
- Views: 15226
Re: Delaying masturbation
Like I said, it's fine to wait to masturbate or not to do it when you want to. Am I misunderstanding what you're asking?