its ok i do stuff like that all the time lol!! also yeah you’re right. i’ll do that if stuff starts to bother me again. rn i just have their dms muted and stuff so then i dont get notified unless they ping me, which helps a bit. i’ll continue to try to take a break from the app all together tho. tha...

mhm yeah i understand! i didn’t add those things dw :]

ok i’ll do that!! thank you!!

if im being honest im kinda numb to it atm??? like earlier i saw their status saying “i miss him” and i just kinda giggled honestly. that might be mean idk but yeah

thank you for everything!! :]

with how discord works (which is mainly how we communicate), if you dm someone who blocked you it says that they blocked you, which stinks bc if i do block them they’ll know and tell their friends and stuff. that article was very helpful btw! thanks!! idk im still so attached to the idea of calling ...

mhm i understand! im just worried about blocking them bc i care about them and dont want them to hurt even more bc of me. i know how to do it but im just scared ig. im also worried that our mutual friends will be upset with me too for doing that. also yeah you’re probably right on that. its just tri...

oof yeah i definitely relate to those manipulation things jacob listed. its tricky bc i wanna take time to myself but they keep texting me and acting like everything’s fine and dandy while simultaneously constantly reminding me of how shitty they feel and how they keep crying. idrk what i need to ma...

they said that they liked me for a while and didn’t think we weoukd get together and that they cant move on from me and that they hope we can get back together and idk whay to do aaaa

ok i feel a bit better now. i kinda got myself into a predicament bc i said we could be friends again but idk if i even want that and idk what to do but yeah. i just feel like a bad person bc i hurt them so much

so i did it and uh. it didn’t go too great!!! crying as im typong this rn bc wowwie uh yeah. so basically i sent the message and they were like “what did i do” and i was like “nothing i just wasn’t ready and i wasn’t thinking clearly” and then they were like “last time someone said to try again when...

ok!! thank you!!

i’ll definitely think about bringing my mom into it if stuff gets bad enough! i’ll also think about doing all that stuff too! im just not 100% sure tho bc i really just wanna get it done tonight so then i can have that weight off my shoulders. i have been talking to my friend about all this (who als...

dammit. now thier discord status says “please dont leave me” (i assume thats directed at me) so idk what to do now. im scared

they also texted me being like “you’re not gonna leave me right?”

idk if they mean leaving them in general or like romantically but idk

ok that sounds good!! ngl ive been having thoughts of like “hmm maybe i shouldn’t do this” but i also know i definitely should

ok thats good to know! i think im pretty comfortable sending it tbh. im a lot less stressed about it than i thought i would be. im just a bit worried that they’ll be like “did i do something” or something like that

you’re both right. i’ll do that! do you think the message is good to go or should i edit it more? i was thinking of adding a “its not you its me” or something like that to it but idk. i just dont wanna make them feel like its their fault yk?

we’ve mainly been looking into certain groups and programs for kids my age, mainly ones who are also queer. i’ll definitely bring those options up to her later to look into some more! thanks! also, i drafted something up for the “break up” message ig “i like you a lot, but this type of relationship ...

hiya!!

im homeschooled and i would be open to discussing that! me and my mom are trying to figure stuff out in terms of making friends in person so that would help a lot!

thank you, thats all extremely helpful. this all really sucks honestly and it stinks that i got close to yet another person who shows toxic behaviors towards me. im gonna try to think of what i should say, then i can draft something up and maybe send it here for you to look at so i can get a second ...

it honestly depends on the context but most of the time its the former, apologies i didnt make it more clear. also yeah, you’re definitely right on all that. i guess i get so anxious about all this stuff that i just forget to realize that some things are just out of my hands. i think we started dati...

honestly i haven’t felt really able to say no bc im worried about how it will affect them, and because they think i will do it i dont wanna disappoint them or make them sad. honestly im not 100% sure what i need to feel like im allowed to say no. maybe validation for my feelings? reassurance that it...

yeah, i get what you mean. i’ve had some other friends tell me similar things (when things were still like 100% platonic between us) but idk its hard to i guess figure out who to believe, especially bc theres been a lot of drama in the friend group lately, if that makes sense. like i guess as an exa...

you’re very right, and god, all that was pretty eye opening i wont lie. thank you so much for that. i think i definitely need some help figuring out how to go about all this if thats ok. i guess im just worried bc they seem so happy and again, i love them a lot and i dont want to hurt them. i guess ...

i also just feel like all of this is my fault bc i got myself into this even though i had sort of a gut feeling that i shouldn’t and now im just unintentionally kinda playing with their heart/feelings by being like this

i dont know. i just dont want to make them upset, and i feel like a jerk especially because i kept going back and fourth in terms of this relationship, and im the one who brought up the idea in the first place. idk

im not sure. i really love them romantically too so i’m not sure. i like being in a relationship with them so i just dont know what to do.