So, we started flirting a couple days ago, and we've come to the conclusion that we want a relationship, the person I'm starting this relationship with use ey/em pronouns(they/them pronouns without the th), which is already going to be weird to explain. Ey are also in a poly relationship with two ot...

So, I'm turning 18 soon and my grandmother and me can't afford to live on our own without my aunt's help. And my aunt is moving out when our lease expires. I'm not finished with high school, so it's not really possible for me to work full-time like that... I'm really overwhelmed with this and I woul...

I'm considering using singing as a way to do voice training to make my voice sound more feminine, but I'm looking for suggestions.

I have been venting to people at the GSA, but another cool thing is that we actually like learn about LGBT stuff too. Which is helpful, even just having a presence affects a lot both for me and the entire school.

I have local resources, now, my school's GSA is finally back. And like the isolated feeling has died down a bit.

So, like the gender dysphoria over the past couple weeks has got so bad that I'm losing my appetite, losing sleep and just not doing well at all... My mother also thinks that I'm selfish still for wanting to be myself, and that I'm not really a "girl...", but she also has no trust and says...

So, I'm concerned that cis gay women might think I'm a "guy trying to get into their pants", but like while I know some might not see it that way, but like does anyone have idea on how to deal with it if I do run into someone like that?

So, I was able to get my hands on a camisole with a built-in bra, so I decided to stuff it with socks, giving myself roughly a B or small C cup bust. Now the intresting thing is I had no problem maneuvering around my chest area, and after getting over the initial anxiety and adjusting a bit to the n...

So, long story short, this is a follow-up on me not being sure earlier. So, I am certainly sure about my identity as a girl, but the whole having to go through a "second puberty" makes me scared and hesitant. I have reason to believe outside of just being weary of that, that the thought &q...

I'm really not sure where to move if I were to move, and frankly, if I could even afford to move, even though I have to wait until I'm 19 offically if I want to finish my senior year, because I started late. Also, I want to go to college, but I'm so afraid that student loans are going to be too much...

Like, at least in high school, also probably doesn't help I lean heavily on the female side and I prefer poly relationships (or at least poly friendly significant others.), and like also, dating in high school is already hard enough. Like I've only ever had one girlfriend since I came out and she wa...

Family, mainly with me going out, and also what exactly I'm allowed to do. (As if I went without permission to the dance, my grandmother told me I'd be labeled a runaway and have law enforcement called on me.)

I don't think so, I'm confused on where I stand as far as what I can and can't do.

I Feel like I deserve it, though. Also, my family knows that I was going to leave without permission, and I swear I'm the worst thing to them.

KittyPink wrote:I'm not sure, outside of tonight, I have no plans for how to move forward.

Well, I ended up fighting with virtually everyone family-wise, and got myself so stressed out I got sick and vomited before the dance, so I couldn't of really gone anyway.

I'm not sure, outside of tonight, I have no plans for how to move forward.

Got it. This sounds like a really stressful and frustrating situation for you, and I'm sorry you're dealing with it right now. It's hard when the person who is supposed to be caring for you is holding various threats over your head. Are you also asking your friends for support around this, so that ...

Heather wrote:How would you like us to help you with this?

I'm really not sure, I'm considering going anyway without permission and facing any consequences as a result. On the down side, I'm losing the phone she gave me again. (Not much of a surprise there, though.) Just emotional support I guess would help.

So, My grandmother is back to threatening to give up custody of me, and also why I had to tell her is because I had to confirm I was actually going to Homecoming. She Appearantly doesn't want me going in a dress for my safety, but I think it has something to do with me "not breaking " my m...

I'm not very comfortable at all with my current downstairs in normal moments. Sexual moments, however, are basically based on how I'm feeling about it.

Well, I ran into an issues and had to tell her anyway... Didn't go so well... Think I might be on to something, maybe, though. I'm not sure what I'm going to do with the ticket, though.

My friend brought up a good point, I need to stop being scared and be serious and draw the line with my family about who I am and how they need to accept that. And that I should tell my grandmother this is how it is. I'm really for that except I'm concerned that I might not be safe to do that, and t...

Well, I told my grandmother I might be going, and she nastily presumed I'm going in a dress, in which I lied and said no to.

I'm concerned she'll ask if I don't specify. And might not let me go if I do tell the truth.

Oh, I understand. Last you and I spoke about anything like this, we'd agreed that it felt most beneficial with you to give up for now on any hope your grandmother would act differently (she likely still won't), and to try to avoid exchanges with her that usually just result in her responses making ...