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by Nicole
Thu Sep 29, 2022 7:05 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Difficulty with penetration
Replies: 5
Views: 7238

Re: Difficulty with penetration

Hi discoveringme,

I am so happy that everything has worked out for you! I will gladly take a look at your other post. Take care!
by Nicole
Tue Sep 27, 2022 7:53 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Can this cause pregnancy?
Replies: 1
Views: 4511

Re: Can this cause pregnancy?

We will not answer ANY questions about pregnancy fear or anxiety in our direct services from users who are not pregnant or who are not or have not otherwise been directly involved with an actual pregnancy. Please do not post this kind of question. If you are seeing this text, and your thread is loc...
by Nicole
Tue Sep 27, 2022 7:16 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Did I fall foul of misinformation?
Replies: 20
Views: 3170

Re: Did I fall foul of misinformation?

Hi ManekiNeko, It seems like your keeping up with the research and news on the HPV vaccine and STIs in general helps ease some of these anxieties that you’ve been having, is that right? I am glad that you have been internalizing our advice and working with us to find some closure in your concern. Ag...
by Nicole
Sat Sep 24, 2022 8:51 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Problems with being genderfluid
Replies: 5
Views: 2021

Re: Problems with being genderfluid

Thank you for clarifying! While masturbation and pleasure is different for everyone, you can certainly try to follow the motions of masturbation of someone with a penis. We have an article that covers sexual anatomy that may help you identify some areas that are typically sensitive in a penis: With ...
by Nicole
Sat Sep 24, 2022 8:16 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Problems with being genderfluid
Replies: 5
Views: 2021

Re: Problems with being genderfluid

Hi GenderfluidDerg, are you referring to the anus? I want to make sure that you are referring to that before furthering our conversation since that will definitely help us help you!
by Nicole
Thu Sep 22, 2022 11:31 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Did I fall foul of misinformation?
Replies: 20
Views: 3170

Re: Did I fall foul of misinformation?

Hi ManekiNeko, I'm glad Michaela's comments have been resonating with you! I understand that these safeguards may seem troublesome and tedious to you, but any respectful partner will understand their importance and do whatever it takes in order for you to have a safe and comfortable experience. Pers...
by Nicole
Tue Sep 20, 2022 11:04 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Vibrator & Partnered Sex
Replies: 12
Views: 2939

Re: Vibrator & Partnered Sex

I absolutely understand your anxiety in this situation, you're not alone! Sexuality is incredibly complex and I think that the sensations coming from the different forms of masturbation play a massive role when thinking about different sexual fantasies. The sensations may relate to the idea of perfo...
by Nicole
Tue Sep 20, 2022 8:40 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Vibrator & Partnered Sex
Replies: 12
Views: 2939

Re: Vibrator & Partnered Sex

Hi MissConfused, thank you for reaching out! I want to emphasize that there is no "right" way to experience sexual pleasure or explore your sexuality. With this, there is nothing concerning about only reaching orgasm with a vibrator. Also, your sexuality does not have to be binary or linea...
by Nicole
Sat Sep 17, 2022 12:02 pm
Forum: Sexual Health
Topic: First Time Getting Chlamydia
Replies: 9
Views: 4631

Re: First Time Getting Chlamydia

Hi Mixxes, thank you for reaching out. Before getting into anything, I just want to acknowledge that you did everything right after receiving your test results. Also, you seem very aware of how you contracted chlamydia and how to prevent it from happening again in the future. I am so sorry about how...
by Nicole
Sat Sep 17, 2022 8:33 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Did I fall foul of misinformation?
Replies: 20
Views: 3170

Re: Did I fall foul of misinformation?

Hi ManekiNeko, I hope it's okay that I'm stepping in here. I completely understand what you are going through and your concerns are entirely valid. You mentioned that you lost interest in exploring your sexuality further. My biggest advice there is to have a direct, clear line of communication with ...
by Nicole
Tue Sep 13, 2022 8:04 am
Forum: Bodies
Topic: What is one of your favourite ways of connecting with your body?
Replies: 3
Views: 3559

Re: What is one of your favourite ways of connecting with your body?

Hi Elise! This is a great question. I also love spending time outside, especially going on walks with friends. I love breathing in the fresh air and taking advantage of the nice weather. Sometimes I try to practice yoga and breathing exercises. It’s super refreshing, both physically and mentally, an...
by Nicole
Sun Sep 11, 2022 8:43 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: I don't feel pleasure in my boobs anymore
Replies: 3
Views: 5613

Re: I don't feel pleasure in my boobs anymore

Hi Lacey, thank you for reaching out. It seems that you have ruled out the period and thyroid issues, as well as your current medications. Now, maybe we can revert back to Sam's question about the lack of breast sensitivity in relation to your mental health. Has there been a major change in your men...
by Nicole
Sun Sep 11, 2022 8:01 am
Forum: Sexual Health
Topic: First time
Replies: 2
Views: 3708

Re: First time

Hi learningthings, thank you for reaching out! Birth control can prevent pregnancy, but it does not prevent any risk of infection. Are you on birth control? Do you know what infection your friend had specifically? Sometimes people get urinary tract infections (UTIs) after sex, so it is recommended t...
by Nicole
Sun Sep 11, 2022 7:49 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: I feel a deep regret about my past actions
Replies: 2
Views: 2538

Re: I feel a deep regret about my past actions

Hi greenergrass333, thank you for reaching out! I am so sorry that you have been having these thoughts about your past actions. Please understand that everyone explores their sexuality in different ways, so there is absolutely nothing to be ashamed of. Please do not let this “haunt” you. You are wor...
by Nicole
Sat Sep 10, 2022 8:46 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Masturbating Everyday
Replies: 1
Views: 2246

Re: Masturbating Everyday

Hi Maximil, thank you for reaching out! It is totally normal to masturbate every day and there is nothing unhealthy about it, as long as you are doing it safely.

Here is a good article to check out if you want more information: Is masturbation healthy?.
by Nicole
Sat Sep 10, 2022 7:55 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: My boyfriend thinks I like him too much
Replies: 11
Views: 4801

Re: My boyfriend thinks I like him too much

Hi YellowPamonha! Thank you for reaching out. First and foremost, I am so sorry that your boyfriend has been making those assumptions about you because you want to spend time with him and talk to him often. I want to remind you that long distance relationships can be difficult and everyone handles t...
by Nicole
Fri Sep 09, 2022 6:48 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: What would you tell your past self about sex?
Replies: 4
Views: 3158

Re: What would you tell your past self about sex?

I lost my virginity at a young age to an abusive ex-boyfriend. I have healed tremendously since then and had many epiphanies in regards to relationships and sex. First, leave if you are not being respected, meaning in and out of the bedroom. Second, it is okay that you enjoy sex and are exploring yo...