Thanks for the article, it was really helpful. What I am missing the most is the feeling of being loved and having a sexual partner actually... So both physical and emotional... I am actually cool with the missing of the physical activities since we were already in a long distance relationship and c...

Thank you for the article! I've read it and it really eased my mind. I really don't know why I can't cope with being single. For the past -almost- 5 years, I always had a boyfriend (3 in total), and they were all long term relationships. Considering the fact that I am only 20, almost all of my high ...

Hello, It's been one and a half month since me and my boyfriend decided to end our relationship. It was a mutual decision, we had a long distance relationship and it was actually working for me but my boyfriend failed to complete his first year in college since he was always wanting to Skype with me...

Thank you Heather, for your support. It is indeed a tough time for me right now, but after weeping a little after I wake up or before I go to bed, I believe by heart that this is the right decision for us. I had two more long term relationships before this one, and I know that even the two of those ...

Thank you for asking how i’m doing. I really needed someone to ask me that :( Well, of course I’m rather upset but I always thought I would also be mad; but no, I’m not mad at him, it’s pure sadness I guess. I know this is the right decision no matter how hard it seems to get over it. I know we both...

Hi again, I want to first thank you for helping me during this tough time. So, today I told him that I wanted to talk, so we did. He told me that it's been so hard on him dropping out of college and applying to another one while his friends are all finishing off their first year in college. He is qu...

I once loved him so much, we promised each other everyday that we’re going to marry eachother one day... it was a long distance relationship, and we were so happy. Then he dropped out of college and came back. I feel like his parents -especially his mom- do not approve of me, since not only she decl...

Hi again, Update here! So, as I told before, my boyfriend has been telling me that he is so stressed about getting accepted to his dream school (he dropped off college before, so this will be his second time) and that he is not emotionally stable these days... anyways, i told him that i will be ther...

Hi, After feeling this way for months now, I am finally ready to share my feelings with someone else. I’m currently in a relationship with someone that I truly love and who mostly makes me feel like I’m being loved and respected, which is perfect I know. However, I’ve been feeling a bit weird lately...

Hi, I have been diagnosed with Hashimoto's disease, aka subclinical hypothyroidism, in February 2018 and taking medicine since then. I've been tracking my periods for almost 2 years now and I can say that I don't have irregular periods even though I don't always start my period on the expected date ...

I took Ella last month due to condom failure, it was 2 weeks before my expected period. Then I got my period on the expected dates, which lasted 6 days as usual. I always have sore breasts approximately 10 days prior to my period, which I take as a sign of PMS. And this soreness goes away as I got m...

Hi, Today I'm experiencing some breast pain, even though I am apx. 15 days away from getting my period (I have irregular cycles though), I didn't involve in any kind of sex after I got my last period, so I'm not pregnant. What could be the reason why my breasts are sore? Does ovulation have a sympto...

Hi again, I got my period on the day I expected it, now I am on the third day. However, my breasts are still quite sore and they hurt. I also did not have any kind of sex after the incident. The bleeding seems normal to me, yet I have no idea why my breasts are still sore even though I got my period...

Thanks for your reply. I miss him a lot. I also miss being intimate with him. He was like my best friend, my everything. I cared about him so much that it really hurts he no longer has a feeling for me. He was my first, this may be the reason why I feel like I can't be in a sexual relationship with ...

Hi, My boyfriend of one and a half years and I broke up about two months ago. We started having intercourse two month before our breakup. He said that his feelings changed and he felt like he would be using me for sexual purposes if we did not break up. Anyway, one thing led to another and we starte...

I probably accidentally clicked on that option. Is there a way I could delete this thread?

Alright, thank you for your answers. We will certainly be more careful next time

Oh, he says he doesn't remember if he held the base of the condom during the withdrawal, however, he probably did because otherwise it would be entirely slipped off. What I understand from what you are telling me is that, it shouldn't be a problem unless the condom is entirely slipped of during the ...

Thank you for the reply! I am not sure if it was just a little amount of slippage, it slipped like 3 or 4 cm, the tip of the penis was definitely inside the condom. And also, I don't remember if I mentioned, but it slipped right after the withdrawal, therefore, the bare part (the upper part of the p...

Hi everyone, So today my boyfriend and I were having an intercourse, he was wearing a condom all the time, there was no genital to genital contact at all without a condom. I frequently checked whether if the condom was slipping any time, during the intercourse, and it wasn't. We are backing up condo...

Thank you for your reply, Edith! Yes, today I'm planning to talk about how I felt when he reacted like that and wanted me to accept that I was the one to blame. It was obviously not okay for him to make a pressure on me to apologize. This talk actually made me realize something that I didn't before,...

Hi again, I just talked to my boyfriend about my decision on losing my virginity. We had a fight, and he said he doesn't trust me anymore because I "lied" to him about being ready to have sex. I tried to explain all of these, and apologized for making him feel that way. Did i do the right ...

Thank you Mo! I will check it out.

Well, actually I don't feel safe and supported. Because, I am so scared to do something "not okay" for them and be taken away from my current school. If they do so, my future would be like, ruined. They are so strict, they don't let me hang out with my friends that often, I can't even have...

They don't trust me. I have lied to them a few times in the past, because they would never let me go to my boyfriend's house, even though I was not planning to do something "bad". What would I do? Sometimes, you want to spend some time alone with your boyfriend, and -especially my mom- the...