Hi there smallowo79, sorry to hear that your first time using a vibrator that you were excited to try was an upsetting experience for you. Masturbation and how we experience genital stimulation is unique to every person, and many folks can take a while to work out what works for them. Firstly, how a...

Hi ballerina99 - firstly, you have taken a brave first step outlining this all here and taking a first step to unpacking this. I can empathise as someone who has had similar doubts about themselves. I think your sentence at the end really sums up this emotional experience well "I never like peo...