If you'd like to move out of the newly-registered user queue right away, as you were already a registered user at our old boards, we can do that for you. Just post your previous handle here in this thread, and once we verify that yep, that's clearly you, we'll make that change for you. :) We also as...

What does it mean to you to (only) have sex on your own terms? In other words, not just or mostly because someone else wants it, or someone else might give you something you want that isn't sexual if you have sex with them, or because you feel it's something you are in some way obligated to do. But ...

Seems like a simple question, right? But it's actually the head of a really complex pile of issues. Which is why I'm curious. How do you choose your romantic or sexual partners and/or your close friends? How much of an active choice does it feel like for you? When you do, do you feel like both/all o...

I've been noticing a pattern with some of our users I want to talk about, and think is really important to address. In a word, we keep hearing from people who seem to be saying that in certain relationships, they don't really want to be engaging in sex, or don't want to have some kinds of sex they a...

Testing poll creation

What's this thread for? It's for YAY! (But, you might be asking, what the heck does that mean?) It means it's the place to leave a post about something utterly awesome that just happened to you, or that you just did; about something great in your world or the world we're all part of. Maybe you just ...