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- Tue Nov 14, 2023 11:43 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Dry Humping using condom
- Replies: 3
- Views: 9176
Re: Dry Humping using condom
You could, but there would be no need for it (full clothing provides complete barriers from anything your body fluids or skin could do), and it might wind up tearing in the process.
- Mon Nov 13, 2023 2:32 pm
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: Struggle masturbating
- Replies: 7
- Views: 5010
Re: Struggle masturbating
Hey there, Jax, welcome to the boards.
So, is this a kind of shaking that keeps you from being comfortable or able, physically, or hurts in some way? Or is it just something that happens that you are wondering why it happens?
So, is this a kind of shaking that keeps you from being comfortable or able, physically, or hurts in some way? Or is it just something that happens that you are wondering why it happens?
Re: Discharge
So, sounds like there's probably no cause for concern about it. If it were those other colors, or smelly, then we'd have reason to be concerned about a possible infection, but just more discharge and more fluid discharge is totally normal, especially at the age you're at. The amount of discharge you...
Re: Discharge
Hi there, naurmi.
What's the color like with that discharge? Is it grayish, greenish or yellowish? Or more like whitish or clear?
What's the color like with that discharge? Is it grayish, greenish or yellowish? Or more like whitish or clear?
- Wed Nov 08, 2023 9:34 am
- Forum: Bodies
- Topic: I just can't finish
- Replies: 13
- Views: 11553
Re: I just can't finish
Sounds like you're on the right path now!
Re: Urethra
Hi there, Bromine, welcome to the boards. :) It's actually really hard to even see the urethral opening, it's so small. (The urethra is a tube inside the body: we can't see it from the outside at all.) I do think that describing it as usually flat is accurate. There's an image here made for medical ...
- Wed Nov 08, 2023 9:28 am
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: Just had my first time, need to debrief
- Replies: 1
- Views: 3098
Re: Just had my first time, need to debrief
Hey there, predatorywasp. Welcome to the boards. I'm so glad that you had a first intercourse experience you feel good about. So, this thing with first intercourse where you find that, despite goodness knows how many cultural tropes to the contrary, you feel exactly the same? Normal. Typical. Totall...
- Tue Nov 07, 2023 1:44 pm
- Forum: Bodies
- Topic: Can't find / feel clitoris
- Replies: 5
- Views: 15155
Re: Can't find / feel clitoris
Glad to be of help. You know where to find us if you want to pick this up again or want help with something else!
- Tue Nov 07, 2023 12:43 pm
- Forum: Bodies
- Topic: Can't find / feel clitoris
- Replies: 5
- Views: 15155
Re: Can't find / feel clitoris
Aha! It does indeed sound like you found your clitoral glans. Thanks for answering those questions for me. It does sound like you might be putting some pressure on to your body to perform that could be some of why you're not feeling a lot of sensation there. Too, the whole of the clitoris is WAY big...
- Tue Nov 07, 2023 9:38 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: I'm getting scared again
- Replies: 5
- Views: 11167
Re: I'm getting scared again
I'm not going to engage with you around the questions where you're asking us to repeat answers we have already given you. Not only did we already answer those -- and of course our answers were truthful and accurate -- but you're asking us to engage with your anxiety in a way we know not to be helpfu...
- Mon Nov 06, 2023 10:01 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: 20 year old virgin
- Replies: 5
- Views: 7502
Re: 20 year old virgin
This is very clearly an emotionally abusive relationship that is becoming sexually abusive. The only thing that anyone can do to do right by themselves in that situation is to get out, or, if they need time to do that -- like because they live with the person, or have kids with them -- to make a pla...
- Mon Nov 06, 2023 9:23 am
- Forum: Sexual Health
- Topic: Do I actually have to take my birth control at the exact same time every day?
- Replies: 25
- Views: 103206
Re: Do I actually have to take my birth control at the exact same time every day?
It sounds to me like what they were probably trying to do was to help you be sure that any bloodwork they repeated would be covered by your insurance.
- Mon Nov 06, 2023 9:22 am
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: masturbation
- Replies: 11
- Views: 26156
Re: masturbation
Hey there, emi. Not everyone is comfortable getting a sex toy through a parent, so if you're not, that's okay. If you are, though, looking at your posts here and what you have said about what you enjoy so far, it sounds like a vibrator meant for external (as in, not inside the vagina, but on the ext...
- Mon Nov 06, 2023 9:18 am
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: I feel bad about masterbating at home?
- Replies: 3
- Views: 3893
Re: I feel bad about masterbating at home?
Hey there.
Can you talk to me a little bit about why this feels "wrong" to you? Like, what's wrong about masturbating with other people in the same home or building as you?
Can you talk to me a little bit about why this feels "wrong" to you? Like, what's wrong about masturbating with other people in the same home or building as you?
- Mon Nov 06, 2023 9:17 am
- Forum: Bodies
- Topic: Can't find / feel clitoris
- Replies: 5
- Views: 15155
Re: Can't find / feel clitoris
Hi there, Osumilite. Welcoem to the boards. :) Before I say anything else, I have a couple questions to fill in some information gaps for myself about your situation. 1) Have you ever had a sexual health exam where a healthcare provider physically examined your genitals? 2) Have you ever seen the ex...
- Mon Nov 06, 2023 9:12 am
- Forum: Bodies
- Topic: I just can't finish
- Replies: 13
- Views: 11553
Re: I just can't finish
Hi ther, Jenschmii. I would strongly advise that you not approach any masturbation with the mindset of trying to reach orgasm. That's something called "spectatoring" -- this thing where people are sexual and are super focused on making orgasm happen -- and it's onle of the things most asso...
- Mon Nov 06, 2023 9:08 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: I'm getting scared again
- Replies: 5
- Views: 11167
Re: I'm getting scared again
Hi again, Yohanz. So, the crux of what you're4 saying here is that months after a pregnancy risk that probably wasn't even a risk, you are still having a great deal of anxiety. That makes this an anxiety problem, not a pregnancy risk problem. You also make clear that you haven't figured out ways to ...
- Sun Nov 05, 2023 11:28 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Hard lump in vagina
- Replies: 3
- Views: 7130
Re: Hard lump in vagina
It does sound like you think: that it's your cervix. And, because when we're pooping, we're both generally sitting at an angle, and pushing on muscles to move our bowels, it absolutely can happen that the cervix is closer to the vaginal opening then and much easier to feel. I don't personally think ...
- Sun Nov 05, 2023 11:20 am
- Forum: Et Cetera
- Topic: wanting to publish a story with a sex scene
- Replies: 1
- Views: 3196
Re: wanting to publish a story with a sex scene
Hi there, Lyle. What you're asking about is both fiction and text-based (IOW, not an image of any kind). I don't know of any laws in the west that restrict minors from this or criminialize this. I can't speak to morality, since, unlike laws, it is entirely subjective and varies a whole lot from pers...
- Thu Nov 02, 2023 1:37 pm
- Forum: Sexual Health
- Topic: Do I actually have to take my birth control at the exact same time every day?
- Replies: 25
- Views: 103206
Re: Do I actually have to take my birth control at the exact same time every day?
(I thought you were asking me to call and make healthcare appointments for you, or I would have told you that you or I can't call insurance companies or labs and order you testing before now. Sorry if I misunderstood!)
- Thu Nov 02, 2023 1:35 pm
- Forum: Sexual Health
- Topic: Do I actually have to take my birth control at the exact same time every day?
- Replies: 25
- Views: 103206
Re: Do I actually have to take my birth control at the exact same time every day?
Well, you won't usually be able to order your own blood work through insurance, anywhere, period. Or other tests. You need a healthcare provider to order those tests on your behalf. Patients can't just order their own tests, for the most part. What a given PP provider/branch can do varies a lot betw...
- Thu Nov 02, 2023 10:40 am
- Forum: Sexual Health
- Topic: Do I actually have to take my birth control at the exact same time every day?
- Replies: 25
- Views: 103206
Re: Do I actually have to take my birth control at the exact same time every day?
(Just FYI, Jay, I have been keeping my eyes open for an email from you since yesterday and am not seeing one. If you still want me to make that call for you, I am done with work today at 5 CST, and will not be back in again until Sunday, so will need the info from you I posted about needing sent to ...
- Thu Nov 02, 2023 8:10 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Seman vs "pre cum or pre ejaculate"
- Replies: 2
- Views: 894
Re: Seman vs "pre cum or pre ejaculate"
Okay, so here we go: Semen is the fluid that (sparing people with conditions that change this for them) contains sperm cells and is released with a full ejaculation. Pre-ejaculate (or "pre-cum") is a fluid that is usually also secreted by the penis, but often long before an ejaculation. Al...
- Wed Nov 01, 2023 5:58 pm
- Forum: Sexual Health
- Topic: Do I actually have to take my birth control at the exact same time every day?
- Replies: 25
- Views: 103206
Re: Do I actually have to take my birth control at the exact same time every day?
Better to know 20 years ahead, if you ask me. Since it wasn't timed with your period, it IS possible that that's the reason for your mid-cycle bleeding, and if that's the case, it should stop doing that in a couple more cycles. When started with a period, that tends to be less likely. Still, and all...
- Wed Nov 01, 2023 2:30 pm
- Forum: Sexual Health
- Topic: Do I actually have to take my birth control at the exact same time every day?
- Replies: 25
- Views: 103206
Re: Do I actually have to take my birth control at the exact same time every day?
I'm very sorry to tell you that this having spotting or bleeding you can't predict, sometimes for weeks at a time, is also a thing you'll likely experience with perimenopause, just so you can brace yourself in advance. This might sound like a foolish question, but by any chance did you start taking ...