Hey all, Everything is dumpster fire but lets talk about sexy stuff! I need help with two main things: 1. Does anyone know any dom terms in the nurturing side of dominance that can substitue "Daddy"? 2. Do you have any good outlets for masturbation aside from porn? Like maybe adult video g...

Hey Siân,

Thank you for reassuring this for me!
I really appreciate y'alls help and I hope y'all are taking care of yourselves <3

Hey Heather, I guess I lean toward no to answer your first question. I sometimes think about peoples' theories on why we may or may not be kinky in some way. And again, the kinkshaming for this particular kink definitely doesn't help me at all. As for my sex life I think I wanna work on talking to m...

Alright folks! So I made a great discovery that I was hoping wouldn't be true for a long time...I think I have a light CGL kink. I was masturbating earlier and thought about my partner moaning a lot and acting very submissive while calling me a specific title during sex. I came REALLY hard in respon...

Hey y'all, So I have some updates: I found out that if I buckle down I really will graduate college in Fall of 2021! The "bad" news is that being a full time student again means I'll be at home longer than I would like. I've been managing as best as I can at home. I now eat in my room and ...

Hey you two! I just wanted to let y'all know that both of your words have been greatly appreciated. Just to update, my therapy appointment went well and I'm currently trying to delve more into my relationships with my parents, their actions and boundaries. I'll put more in another post I made talkin...

Hey Siân, I'm definitely going to discuss this in mt next therapy appointment. My therapist is aware of how awful my situation with my father was leading up to hin finally being removed from our home with how sick he was getting. We're all literally waiting for him to die at this point. I cut him of...

Hey so this may be kind of long. I need validation that this sort of intuition of a hypothetical situation is both reasonable and believable. I had a project recently where I told my coming out story. There were a lot of traumatic things that happened particularly with my father but during the proce...

Hey ag13, I think the biggest thing that stuck out to me was making sure I take time away from looking at people in social media if I'm comparing myself. Also being at home a lot during current circumstances doesn't help the best either. I'll be sure to check i with myself more on that. Also thank y...

Hey so as the title implies I wanna feel (more) sexy! Like have confidence in my personal sense of sexual appeal if that makes sense? Anyway, lately I've been online and looking through social media apps. When I see big influencers (and yes quite a few of them are cis[het] men) I think I want to loo...

Thank you so much Amanda! I'm planning things out and there's a chance I'll move out closer to a year than 6 months because I realized I'm super close to finishing my degree and I'm really tired of being in school. Hopefully after I graduate I can get a new job that pays more so that when I do move ...

Hey Mo, I completely agree! I trust I'll still speak to my mom, I just need space is all. Thanks for reassuring me on my loose plans. I'n still very nervous about everything but I'm doing what I can to keep my head up when possible through this less than favorable circumstance. Thank you for the sup...

Hey Amanda, Financial literacy would help a lot! Also just developing a schedule and some basics on cooking and a moving out checklist would be great too. I currently am looking to move into a place with some older friends for $500 in a room. I'm also open to roommates and asking around for apartmen...

Hi Sam, The most I feel I can manage is going out for walks. I know I can't go out and do too much physical activity since my job is very physical and I'm still working on my eating habits. My schedule seems to work out relatively well so I don't spend more time with my mom than I need to. My sister...

Alright so a vent and needing advice. How the hell do I put up with an overbearing/different parent while still living with them? When I say different I mean we have very differing opinions/lifestyles now that I'm older. I've had three big things happen with a lot of little pet peeves living at home...

Hi Alexa, When addressing my feelings they more often feel like a part of me is trying to find something wrong with my current relationship. While yes, physical affection and whatnot are important to me I also want to keep other factors in mind. My partner and I were very affectionate during the beg...

Hi Jacob, So just to clarify the enjoyment of the relationship was said by my therapist, not my partner. My partner is just as anxious as I am about the same thing. They also haven't had very good relationships in the past so with ours going well overall we're both surprised and nervous. I'm not con...

I think I finally realize the root cause of these feelings regarding Dani resurfacing. I reread one of my old posts regarding my feelings about them. I really really like my current partner so much so that I want to develop this deeper commitment to them but I think my brain going back to what could...

Hi rubyted, So I want to clearly state I DO NOT want to pursue anything with Dani. I just want to tell them I never forgot about contacting them in the first place and then drop it after pointing that out. The reason why is that the idea of a relationship doesn't really pan out with them because at ...

Hi Jacob, (Let's just call the other person Dani) I'm a bit confused. Did you read this as though I'm considering breaking up with my current partner? That I'm try to see if Dani would still be interested in me? I'm trying to figure out if I should more directly address Dani and tell them outright I...

Hey y'all, So earlier today I had another interesting stint of gross feelings relating to fantasizing about someone else. Every now and again when my current relationship first started I would fantasize about the person I hooked up with at the out of state event I went to because I was getting from ...

Hey Mo,

We did discuss it and it went over well. We've also noted we're nervous about a lot of the same things.

I'm doing my best to cope without physical touch as is my partner. Hopefully we'll get through this.

Thank you!

Hey Sam, Thanks for your condolences. The family is coping by recognizing he had a good home before passing since he was an older rescue cat. (I hope you're coping well with your loss as well). I can't recall if we've specifically used those terms but my therapist and I have discussed ways to keep m...

Hey, So I've been struggling a lot with my life currently. I'm stressed about money primarily and it basically effects all the other problems in my life. I'm not financially stable enough to stay in school unless I take out a loan but I'm adding on debt I feel I won't be able to pay because I'm not ...

Update: Hey y'all, So my appointment went fairly well. I wasn't misgendered or anything like that which was nice. I got a lot of ideas about what I can eat, how to work eating into a busy schedule and what's best to eat for it. What I didn't like and hope someone can give me some insight on is eatin...