@Mo
Yes I am, quite a lot to be honest, why are you asking that?

First of all, I really wanted to thank you for talking with me about this all. I know you have a lot on your heads and many people need your assistance. So I really appreciate your time. A lot of media that I stumble upon, both irl and drawn, when I look for representation suggested that I should us...

Yeah we do try to communicate as much as possible. I am still seeing my therapist regularly but she seems to try to avoid talking about sex and sexuality for some reason and if we do get to talk about it she shrugs, she doesn't know what to say or do about it. I did/do try to push back dysphoria and...

Yeah so we talked yesterday about those times I described and he's not sure what happened. First time he was scared to go further and second zoned out, was to tired to respond etc. When it comes to not touching me he gave up on doing it cause I told him couple times in a row not to go there. We also...

No I don't think our sex life is necessarily making me or him unhappy. It's more that there are things that need fixing and working on, and there's a lot of uncertainty and fear and anxiety around it I guess, and emotions. I don't think that stopping being intimate will solve anything. I think it ca...

Well there was a situation when he was touching me, I showed him a different way to touch me but he tried it for a bit and went back to the default way cause he thought it would give me more pleasure, and he was also asking me uncomfortable questions and comparing his body to mine. I ended up enduri...

It's not that he doesn't know what to do, it's that he's afraid to do it and doesn't do it. Also I wouldn't even know exactly what more to show him. I've shown him already some things. I'm dysphoric often about multitude of things and what I want, or don't want, and what makes me feel bad changes

Yes we had a lot of conversations about it and I assured him that if it changes, I'll let him know, and if I don't want something I'll tell him on the spot. He told me what I shouldn't do as well but then, when got more comfortable with me slowly partially removed it. Yet it's still how it is.

He acknowledged that he does it and he's scared about hurting me or making me uncomfortable. He said he will kinda try to change it or explore. I think it has to do with my dysphoria, but I'm not sure. He said it's more about him how he feels, than me.

Hello again. I have somewhat of an issue. When we're intimate my boyfriend is afraid of touching me. I can give him a handjob and blowjob, and during that or after he doesn't do much more than stroke my body thighs, shoulders etc. He also very rarely initiates the while encounter or given activities...

Yes I'm am in such a relationship and we both went to test ourselves and we're fine, "clean"

And it's kind of strange cause I could've sworn that my body can go nuts somewhat after having semen there for a period of time. But maybe I'm imagining it.

Hello, it's been quite a long time since I decided to not bother you with my overwhelming dysphoria. I wanted to ask if leaving semen in anal canal for longer period of time can have negative effects? Can it cause digestive issues, stomach pain, gas, loose stool or anything else? Thanks for the answ...

I may be out of my place here, but I do not have periods and that gives me a good chunk of dysphoria, as in something is lacking or missing that I'm suppose to have.

I actually had my session today and I started talking to her about my indifferent approach about HRT, and she wasn't surprised, and just kinda waved it off. I told her a bit a bout my worries, but she said that we already talked through all the effects of HRT and as it is, I can be on HRT unless I c...

Being in therapy more often isn't a possibility, and as it is now I sometimes find it hard to find stuff to talk about. About those expectations ... I feel like HRT won't change much in my life and won't make it magically better. Also there are possible changes I'm not looking forward that I'm not s...

I mean I had to jump through hoops to get it, about 15 health tests done, psychological diagnostical opinion that took lots of money and more than 0.5year. And in total it's been 3-4 years since I first started feeling dysphoria, so way longer than anyone else I know. Still don't feel that way someh...

It is a big deal? I don't feel like it is. I just feel like I did what I could for now about my dysphoria and just went on about my life. I'm not really expecting or waiting for anything to happen to be honest. It's weird but everyone is hyping it up except for me.

Just an update. I got hormones and started taking since 20th of Feb. Still no idea how I feel about it, but I made that decision.

Yes most trans person I speak to talk only about physical logistics of transition. They also feel fully comfortable or at least much more comfortable with trans label and acknowledging differences. I have few people I spoke with and follow on Twitter. I see many respecting and validating people ther...

Heather, thanks for replying. I've been messaging you in strong emotions, situation with my boyfriend isn't as bad as you think, it's not like I'm making him do things and he refuses, it's more of him having his obstacles and needing encouragement, a little push, some advice or me checking up on how...

I guess, I just shouldn't watch porn or masturbate, but it's not a fun life to live... I know it sounds bad the way I describe it but it's true. Our relationship is great outside of sex, He's thoughtful and considerate. We never fought with each other. He has issues to as he has abusive family and s...

Also by any means don't mean all cis girls, and that also isn't very objective, it's my internal feeling.

And when it comes to turning my relationship into not sexual one it's pretty much done, I'm back now in my country, and he's in his, so we have no sexual relations for now and some time ahead.

No I want to keep this relationship, he's the only thing I have, I have no friends or family. I don't know what I would do if I broke up with him. No one ever expressed interest in me in a healthy way other than him... He explained to me it was due to stress and nervousness, and that taste threw him...

Yes thanks. Both my therapist and my doctor know about it but don't know any details, guess there's never time for those over the usual stuff. I recently traveled to US to meet my boyfriend of 1.5 years for the first time. Skipping through all the social troubles with his family, sex wasn't all that...

So I decided and convinced my doctor and I'm going on hormones soon TM. Probably about a month or two. I guess it can make regular living a bit easier over time, but unfortunately, nothing can fix my sex life