Hello! If my partner said he’s ok with not having sex ever but is still ok with it I think I’d be more comfortable with sex, and I think I would be interested in having sex sometimes. The idea does become more appealing. I’m not sure ‘how much’ I would like to have it though (how frequent I would wa...

Hi! I've been having a hard few days recently. I've been really confused about what my sexuality is. I've been wondering if I am grey asexual, asexual or sexual. I might create a separate topic to talk about this later, but I got triggered by something yesterday and I just wanted to talk about it. I...

Hello! I recently started using tampons. I couldn't find the answer for my question anywhere online so I thought I'd come here. In the morning when I have my period I like to have a shower to clean myself. After the shower though, when I try to insert a tampon my vagina is quite dry (because I have ...

Hello! It’s been quite a long time since I’ve visited this topic. I’ve been feeling good about this issue, but I saw something online saying that if your partner doesn’t have a legitimate reason for not giving oral sex, they’re just being selfish And that it is expected that you HAVE to give if you ...

I think what I mean by “good enough” sexually is if I have sex enough or if I do something like oral sex or not (which is something I am uncomfortable with doing), but not really whether I “perform” well enough. But thank you for your answer :) I am getting help for my anxiety and depression, but I ...

Yes, I do have quite bad anxiety about sex. I think something that puts unnecessary pressure on me is this: I have debilitating anxiety and depression and I can't go to school. I am often spending my days doing not much at all. One thing that is a comfort to me is daydreaming and having an imaginary...

Thank you! I think it's really reassuring to know that there is no "normal" with sex and sexuality and it is very diverse. Sex and sexuality is how I want it in my life right now, which is, it's not really in my life. You've made me feel really comforted, so thank you very much. Just one l...

Hello, So lately I’ve been feeling a bit sad about something. I am still quite uncomfortable about sex. I am 17 and female. I refuse to watch sex scenes because I get anxious, and I don’t really like talking about sex. It’s just something that I know I’m a bit scared of. I’m not sure if this is norm...

Hello, thank you for responding. I think some of the anxiety I get is that I’ve seen quite a few people online say that they’d break up with someone if they didn’t do oral sex. And that makes me feel pressured I suppose. But I also certainly think that I need help for my anxiety (which I am currentl...

Hi, I’m back again. At the moment I feel quite anxious about this (being uncomfortable with oral sex and thinking that no one will be with me etc.), and was wondering if I could clarify some things? I do feel uncomfortable with oral sex, but sometimes I feel like it would be something I’d like to gi...

Thank you for your response. I’m still very much confused and overwhelmed by how sex and relationships will work, but you have certainly given me useful advice. I’m struggling with bad mental illness and this has been a recurring worry of mine and I’m really struggling. But I’m going to work with my...

Yes, I understand. I still feel really guilty and broken, though. The fact that some people may leave me because they won’t get their needs met really bothers me. I would hope for someone who loves me for me and not what I can do for them sexually, or is this unrealistic, naive and selfish? I want t...

Hello, I’m a teenage female and I’ve been feeling concerned about something for quite a long time. I’m not in a relationship or plan to be in one soon, but I’m just worrying about the future. I feel a bit silly. I don’t want to do oral sex. It just makes me uncomfortable. I worry that this will effe...