I agree with everything you've said. I think it makes me feel embarrassed because I feel like it is my responsibility to be fully clean to make this experience most enjoyable for both me and my partner. But you do not think that it is possible I don't evacuate fully and am constantly constipated but...

You are right, this is absolutely about comfort levels, but my comfort levels, not my partner's. He is very kind and sweet and would not bothered if something accidentally comes up. But I am freaking about that for some reason, I feel like I would be to embarrassed in that kind of situation so I jus...

Hi! Oh this is kind of an embarrassing topic, but I always feel it is safe to discuss these kind of things here + internet is giving me conflicted info about this topic. I have been writing to you about this already, but need some reassurance again haha. Anyway, I'm a bi guy and I've had anal twice ...

Hahah you really read me like an open book! In my head, it seemed like a really scary conversation to have, especially since he is a bit avoidant when it comes to his feelings and expressing his attachment. Actually, I am kind of the same way. Anyway, that article was really useful and I don't feel ...

It would definitely help to talk to him about this. He is a bit older and much more experienced with having sex with guys, but I don't really know how to bring this up since, even though we have amazing connection and he really is sweet and nice, we've only seen each other 2 times for about 3-4 days...

Thank you Alice for such a quick response!

Yes, I'll be definitely using lube and condoms. I'm still not sure (so I would like to get your opinion) if I need to (and how to do it if I do need to) douche myself with water only?
And is it okay to use soapy fingers to clean my anus from the inside?

Hello! I am a 24 years old, healthy, bi guy. I would like to get an advice on how to prepare myself for bottoming without douching. Every other site suggests using enemas, but I've read that they can mess up your bowel flora so I would like to avoid that and prepare myself in a less invasive way. I ...

Hello there! I am 22-year-old male and I've been in a relationship with this girl for over 3 years now. I do love her, but I have a really hard time saying these words out loud. For some reason,whenever I try to say that, I feel extreme tightness in my throat and it's just mentally and physically pa...

That absolutely makes a lot of sense. I sure have a lot of thinking to do now. Thank You so, so much, You've been extremely helpful and informative and I feel so much better now.
Lots of love!

Thank You for the article! The problems I was referring to is my problem with affection and intimacy which make me difficult to fit into a traditional set of expectations and behaviors in a relationship. For example, it's hard for me to baby talk or track our anniversaries because those things hones...

Thank You so much for such a quick reply! I'm not sure how to decide whether I should stay in this relationship or not. The thing is, I'm afraid I'll regret it if I decide to leave this relationship. Also, I'm not sure if the relationship problems I'm having now are the problems of this relationship...

Hello! Me and my girlfriend are both 21 years old and we've been in a relationship for 3 and a half years, though we've been the closest friends for years before we even started dating.At a first glance, we're really similar, but at a deeper level we couldn't be more different when it comes to princ...

Hello there! I am 21 year old male and I'm bisexual. I'm currently in a 3 year old relationship with an amazing girl. This is my first relationship and so far it's been great, she's incredible and loves me unconditionally, but the thing is that a year ago I started thinking how it would be to be in ...

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Thank you for your answer, but it is not painful to pull foreskin BACK at all! Just slighty to pull it DOWN.

Hello! I am 19 year old healthy male. I'm not sure if my frenulum is too short. I can pull the foreskin back when flacid, but when hard I can do it just a little bit behind the penis gland and then it's tight, slighty painful and pulls the gland downwards a little. I've never thought it's really ser...