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by Eddie C
Fri Feb 17, 2017 9:46 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: IUD and anxiety
Replies: 9
Views: 3705

Re: IUD and anxiety

Hello there, Lillithxambrose. :) You can find the answer to your question -- and lots or more info about the IUD! -- in this next link: http://www.scarleteen.com/birth_control_bingo_intrauterine_devices_iud Also, I want to echo what Mo already mentioned before about backing up your IUD with a second...
by Eddie C
Tue Feb 14, 2017 8:37 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Pill user but condom broke
Replies: 1
Views: 1636

Re: Pill user but condom broke

Hello there, Holymoly. Welcome to Scarleteen. :) As long as you take your pills on time and without missing any -- which sounds like you do! -- there is no need for Emergency Contraception. If and when someone is taking Birth Control pills, the protection works on the whole cycle. You can learn more...
by Eddie C
Mon Feb 13, 2017 9:44 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Pregnancy test when to take it
Replies: 8
Views: 3302

Re: Pregnancy test when to take it

Honestly, taking a test is going to be up to you and about what you need to feel calm and safe. If you think doing will put your nerves at ease then, test away. :)
by Eddie C
Mon Feb 13, 2017 9:20 pm
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Painful Masturbation
Replies: 3
Views: 2071

Re: Painful Masturbation

Hello there, ThisIsAwkward. Welcome to Scarleteen. :) Can I ask if you are up to date with you sexual healthcare, such as testing? If not, this could be a good chance to start. Is very hard for us to answer questions like this one through a service like this. First thing that comes to my mind is to ...
by Eddie C
Mon Feb 13, 2017 9:10 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Pregnancy test when to take it
Replies: 8
Views: 3302

Re: Pregnancy test when to take it

If and when someone is testing from pregnancy, you want to follow the instructions of the test you are going to take. That being said, usually you can test 14 days after the risk. Here you can have more information about this topic: http://www.scarleteen.com/article/pregnancy_parenting/peeing_on_a_s...
by Eddie C
Thu Feb 09, 2017 11:03 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Help
Replies: 8
Views: 3364

Re: Help

Hello there, Maria. I hope you don't mind if I chime in. :)

You mentioned you did see a therapist a year ago, is this someone you stop seeing? Also, did they talk to you about strategies to cope with anxiety when it happens?
by Eddie C
Thu Feb 09, 2017 10:52 pm
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Worrying symptoms, but normal period and negative hpt
Replies: 1
Views: 1489

Re: Worrying symptoms, but normal period and negative hpt

We will not answer ANY questions about pregnancy fear or anxiety in our direct services from users who are not pregnant or who are not or have not otherwise been directly involved with an actual pregnancy. Please do not post this kind of question. If you are seeing this text, and your thread is loc...
by Eddie C
Sun Feb 05, 2017 1:03 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Birth control pill query
Replies: 5
Views: 2220

Re: Birth control pill query

Yes, you got this right.

As long as you take your active pills on time, without missing any, effectivenes doesn't take a break. :)
by Eddie C
Sun Feb 05, 2017 12:54 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: pregnancy
Replies: 1
Views: 1493

Re: pregnancy

We will not answer ANY questions about pregnancy fear or anxiety in our direct services from users who are not pregnant or who are not or have not otherwise been directly involved with an actual pregnancy. Please do not post this kind of question. If you are seeing this text, and your thread is loc...
by Eddie C
Sat Feb 04, 2017 7:32 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Condom broke now what
Replies: 5
Views: 2163

Re: Condom broke now what

Is hard to predict how someone is going to react to Emergency Contraception. It can mess up a little bit with your cycle but nothing that won't get back on track after a month or two.
by Eddie C
Sat Feb 04, 2017 7:14 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Condom broke now what
Replies: 5
Views: 2163

Re: Condom broke now what

Hello, Lucli. Welcome to Scarleteen. :) Condoms do not need to be tested with water afterwards. Because they are not designed to carry so much liquid is easy for them to break, giving you the idea they didn't work. If and when a condom breaks, it is going to be absolutely visible. Like when a balloo...
by Eddie C
Sat Feb 04, 2017 7:08 pm
Forum: Sexual Identity
Topic: I thought I was bisexual but I may be a lesbian...
Replies: 1
Views: 5691

Re: I thought I was bisexual but I may be a lesbian...

Hello, there! Welcome back to the boards. :) I am sorry you have been feeling so anxious about this, please do anything you can to take care of yourself. Sexual orientation can be, for sure, very fluid. One thing to keep in mind that might be helpful is that, whatever we decided to call ourselves, i...
by Eddie C
Thu Feb 02, 2017 8:39 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Performance anxiety and worries
Replies: 3
Views: 1714

Re: Performance anxiety and worries

Hello there, Jk. Welcome to Scarleteen! :) It could be really helpful to understand that sex is not a performance. It is not something we do and either we succeed or we fail, or something we do "well" but instead something we enjoy. Also, stop framing intercourse as "the real thing&qu...
by Eddie C
Sun Jan 29, 2017 8:46 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: PLAN B + BIRTH CONTROL
Replies: 1
Views: 1306

Re: PLAN B + BIRTH CONTROL

If and when someone who used Emergency Contraception wants to make sure it did work, the only way to do ot is by taking a pregnancy test. :) In the case that you are interested in more information about how and when to test you can read this next link: http://www.scarleteen.com/article/pregnancy_par...
by Eddie C
Sun Jan 29, 2017 5:05 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Plan B + Birth Control
Replies: 1
Views: 1282

Re: Plan B + Birth Control

We will not answer ANY questions about pregnancy fear or anxiety in our direct services from users who are not pregnant or who are not or have not otherwise been directly involved with an actual pregnancy. Please do not post this kind of question. If you are seeing this text, and your thread is loc...
by Eddie C
Sat Jan 28, 2017 7:16 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: happily partnered
Replies: 2
Views: 2137

Re: happily partnered

Happy to hear you are doing great. :)
by Eddie C
Thu Jan 26, 2017 8:59 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Cramping
Replies: 1
Views: 1103

Re: Cramping

We will not answer ANY questions about pregnancy fear or anxiety in our direct services from users who are not pregnant or who are not or have not otherwise been directly involved with an actual pregnancy. Please do not post this kind of question. If you are seeing this text, and your thread is loc...
by Eddie C
Sun Jan 22, 2017 2:26 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: First Time
Replies: 2
Views: 1596

Re: First Time

Hello there, Willow. Welcome to Scarleteen. :)

Periods are not always the same so it's not unusual for them to change/shift. Bodies are not machines so we can count that changes are part of them. :)
by Eddie C
Sun Jan 22, 2017 2:18 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Antibiotics and the pill
Replies: 8
Views: 2730

Re: Antibiotics and the pill

This is something that will be better answered by the doctor who prescribed the antibiotics. You can always call them and ask them by the phone without having to make an appointment. If they are not available, a pharmacist will be your second best choice. :)
by Eddie C
Mon Jan 16, 2017 10:13 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Sex and Periods
Replies: 1
Views: 1277

Re: Sex and Periods

Hello, Chica. Welcome to Scarleteen. :) There are a lot of reasons why periods can change. Being sexually active is not one of them but stress and changes in your routine -- such as lack of sleeping, changes in diets, etc -- are. Bodies are not machines so they won't always act and react the same wa...
by Eddie C
Mon Jan 16, 2017 10:08 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: "The pregnancy panic companion" question
Replies: 8
Views: 2901

Re: "The pregnancy panic companion" question

Yes, you got it right. :)
by Eddie C
Sat Jan 14, 2017 10:30 pm
Forum: Supporting Each Other
Topic: My brain won't stop...
Replies: 19
Views: 10159

Re: My brain won't stop...

Hello there, Choka. I want to say kudos to you for talking to your partner and redefining your limits and boundaries about sex. That is certainly a very hard step to take but one that can help a lot. Listening to ourselves and recognizing and honoring our needs is a very important part of taking car...
by Eddie C
Sat Jan 14, 2017 10:21 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Is/Was my plan good enough?
Replies: 2
Views: 1353

Re: Is/Was my plan good enough?

Hello there, Quinn. Welcome to Scarleteen. :)

Here is a great article about backing up your contraception method(s).

http://www.scarleteen.com/article/sexua ... ol_with_a_

I hope you find this link helpful. :)
by Eddie C
Sat Jan 14, 2017 10:11 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Pill Issue
Replies: 1
Views: 1019

Re: Pill Issue

We will not answer ANY questions about pregnancy fear or anxiety in our direct services from users who are not pregnant or who are not or have not otherwise been directly involved with an actual pregnancy. Please do not post this kind of question. If you are seeing this text, and your thread is loc...
by Eddie C
Sat Jan 14, 2017 10:08 pm
Forum: Bodies
Topic: Itchy vulva, painful clitoris
Replies: 1
Views: 5311

Re: Itchy vulva, painful clitoris

No need to feel embarrased here. :) Yeast infections don't always come with white discharge, but they almost always come with the itchiness you are describing. A healthcare provider in person is the only one who can diagnose this but, if you choose to go and get help do keep in mind that yeast infec...