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- Sun Sep 02, 2018 11:33 am
- Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
- Topic: Is humping at age three the same as masturbation?
- Replies: 3
- Views: 6618
Re: Is humping at age three the same as masturbation?
well the goal of masturbation isn't always orgasm, I think that's a pretty big assumption to say that the goal of masturbation after puberty *is* definitively to achieve orgasm
- Wed Aug 22, 2018 7:55 am
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: Thumbcuffs and toecuffs curiosity.
- Replies: 3
- Views: 3552
Re: Thumbcuffs and toecuffs curiosity.
I found this article, which may help. Staff can look over this and remove if it's inaccurate or problematic
https://www.tbotech.com/thumbcuffs-what ... e-used.htm
https://www.tbotech.com/thumbcuffs-what ... e-used.htm
- Wed Aug 22, 2018 7:50 am
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: Thumbcuffs and toecuffs curiosity.
- Replies: 3
- Views: 3552
Re: Thumbcuffs and toecuffs curiosity.
right away I guess one of the big risks could be the cuffs blocking blood circulation, and most of the risks that are associated with handcuffs are probably also present with thumb and toe cuffs.
- Mon Aug 20, 2018 8:37 pm
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: Have you ever had relationship expectations that turned out to be unrealistic?
- Replies: 7
- Views: 5534
Re: Have you ever had relationship expectations that turned out to be unrealistic?
I used to think I'd be able to "fix" or "make better" people just by being in a relationship with them. It was probably from a place of naiveté more than anything, assuming I could just make years of trauma or intense emotions built up over months simply go away
- Tue Aug 14, 2018 9:06 pm
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: ANNIVERSARY!
- Replies: 18
- Views: 13471
Re: ANNIVERSARY!
met again on Sunday! it was great
- Tue Aug 14, 2018 9:06 pm
- Forum: Et Cetera
- Topic: What is Something You're Looking Forward To?
- Replies: 21
- Views: 19556
Re: What is Something You're Looking Forward To?
-halloween again! 80s horror marathon with bf and binge-watching Castlevania season 2~
-BF's birthday<3 he's so much to me and I finally get to give him a proper gift this time!
-Shazam! looks like a great movie
-Rosh Hashanah celebrations with family
-BF's birthday<3 he's so much to me and I finally get to give him a proper gift this time!
-Shazam! looks like a great movie
-Rosh Hashanah celebrations with family
- Tue Aug 14, 2018 8:56 pm
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: First starting to date
- Replies: 5
- Views: 4306
Re: First starting to date
update: I suppose you can say ive dated physically now because my partner and I finally Met in person about a month ago and again on Sunday
- Tue Aug 14, 2018 8:54 pm
- Forum: Gender
- Topic: What's your concept of your gender like?
- Replies: 24
- Views: 21966
Re: What's your concept of your gender like?
okay so half of my rant there makes little sense to me now. I'm confident in my being male, but to say right now that I don't have a feminine side or that doing traditionally feminine things doesn't excite me partially because of said femininity would be a lie
- Tue Aug 14, 2018 8:52 pm
- Forum: Sex, Culture and Politics
- Topic: "closeted" not out of circumstance?
- Replies: 3
- Views: 7518
Re: "closeted" not out of circumstance?
an update: I came out to my parents on the same day I told them about my partner and they accept me wholeheartedly!
- Tue Aug 14, 2018 8:50 pm
- Forum: Sexual Identity
- Topic: What is your "Coming Out" Story?
- Replies: 8
- Views: 10750
Re: What is your "Coming Out" Story?
update: I came out to my parents on the same day I told them about my partner and they accept me wholeheartedly!
- Tue Aug 14, 2018 8:49 pm
- Forum: Gender
- Topic: How has your gender expression evolved?
- Replies: 17
- Views: 18739
Re: How has your gender expression evolved?
update: my actual expression hasn't changed, but now I'm more comfortable in understanding and accepting my feminine side and that I like things like skirts because of their feminine associations and that's okay
- Tue Aug 14, 2018 8:46 pm
- Forum: Et Cetera
- Topic: What is one thing you learned about sex & yourself this year?
- Replies: 18
- Views: 14843
Re: What is one thing you learned about sex & yourself this year?
an update:in the past 2 years I've become more flexible (in both ways hehe) and become more comfortable in my own skin in relation to partners, and I've learned how to properly shave my genital region
- Tue Aug 14, 2018 8:42 pm
- Forum: Et Cetera
- Topic: power bottom?
- Replies: 1
- Views: 5836
Re: power bottom?
yo this thread still exists
- Thu Aug 02, 2018 3:40 pm
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: ANNIVERSARY!
- Replies: 18
- Views: 13471
Re: ANNIVERSARY!
Oh,I’m sorry I failed to mention that. Yeah, we’re long distance seeing as we live in different states
- Thu Aug 02, 2018 3:15 pm
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: ANNIVERSARY!
- Replies: 18
- Views: 13471
Re: ANNIVERSARY!
we met up in person for the first time last month! it was great!!
- Wed Aug 01, 2018 7:23 am
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: Has our recent culture changed your sex life?
- Replies: 6
- Views: 5184
Re: Has our recent culture changed your sex life?
hearing about changes in the rights of LGBTQ+ individuals to adopt has got me concerned in the past about my future with my partner as we had discussed children before and worries that that possibility could be cut off were definitely there
- Wed Aug 01, 2018 7:20 am
- Forum: Sex & Sexuality
- Topic: Sex Toys
- Replies: 3
- Views: 4966
Re: Sex Toys
I've used a spare hairbrush as a DIY sex toy, but more recently I haven't had non-shared items to use
are all flashlight-and-tenga-like toys necessarily single-use items?
are all flashlight-and-tenga-like toys necessarily single-use items?
- Wed Aug 01, 2018 7:16 am
- Forum: Et Cetera
- Topic: What's your favourite Scarleteen article?
- Replies: 7
- Views: 6807
Re: What's your favourite Scarleteen article?
my answer will likely change within a month, but http://www.scarleteen.com/article/advice/yes_no_maybe_so_a_sexual_inventory_stocklist has been infinitely helpful in assessing what I really want and am comfortable with and in preparing me to initiate conversations with partners about what they want ...
- Wed Aug 01, 2018 7:08 am
- Forum: Sex, Culture and Politics
- Topic: What's "Real Sex?" (Seriously.)
- Replies: 14
- Views: 30522
Re: What's "Real Sex?" (Seriously.)
since I first became aware of kinds of sex other than intercourse I've always sort of thought "yeah, that's just another kind of sex." it just made sense to me. I suppose I have still taken some things to be "foreplay" but I don't lump foreplay activities like manual, making out,...
- Thu May 31, 2018 7:29 pm
- Forum: Et Cetera
- Topic: What is Something You're Looking Forward To?
- Replies: 21
- Views: 19556
Re: What is Something You're Looking Forward To?
meeting my boyfriend in July~ so excited!!!
- Thu May 31, 2018 7:28 pm
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: ANNIVERSARY!
- Replies: 18
- Views: 13471
Re: ANNIVERSARY!
still going strong!
- Thu May 31, 2018 7:20 pm
- Forum: Et Cetera
- Topic: Good love songs?
- Replies: 22
- Views: 19184
Re: Good love songs?
okay! Vocaloid time! this one I think is really beautiful - Wrinkle performed by Gumi This is so saccharine I might as well be diabetic, I love it - Rin Rin Signal performed by the Kagamine Twins (Rin and Len) this is absolutely beautiful - One Hundred Years of Love performed by the one and only Hat...
- Thu Mar 22, 2018 6:13 pm
- Forum: Et Cetera
- Topic: When Was the First Time You Saw Yourself in a Story
- Replies: 9
- Views: 7647
Re: When Was the First Time You Saw Yourself in a Story
An addendum: I guess you could say various vampires and other such characters in fiction who have assumed multiple guises of different genders and thus been ‘heterosexual’ with males and females counts, in which case I’d include Doctor Who among others. Also, other than sexuality one of the first ti...
- Fri Mar 09, 2018 8:43 pm
- Forum: Relationships
- Topic: should I tell him?
- Replies: 10
- Views: 5115
Re: should I tell him?
said guy I broke up with and I currently am with someone else and have been for over a year, as documented in my other threads
- Wed Jan 24, 2018 7:39 pm
- Forum: Et Cetera
- Topic: Good love songs?
- Replies: 22
- Views: 19184
Re: Good love songs?
as cheesy as it sounds, I'd check out some old Rick Astley songs. he's just so earnest and shit. none of that "ay girl i love you bitch" stuff