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by ralphie41
Fri Mar 18, 2016 3:56 pm
Forum: Supporting Each Other
Topic: I'm hurting
Replies: 20
Views: 8727

Re: I'm hurting

Hey! Hope it's okay to weigh in - this is something I massively struggle with too, and learning how to set properly achievable goals is what's changed things for me. So, you learn what you can actually manage to do in a day, and plan it, then when you tick those things off you can try to relax. Also...
by ralphie41
Fri Mar 18, 2016 3:48 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Getting over a best friend
Replies: 3
Views: 2491

Re: Getting over a best friend

Hi Stephanie, thanks for replying. I have a colouring book which I find really helpful as distraction, so I've been doing quite a lot of that, and watching films, going for walks etc. Some of my friends should be here for their holidays soon so then I can meet up with them which I am looking forward...
by ralphie41
Thu Mar 17, 2016 5:30 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Getting over a best friend
Replies: 3
Views: 2491

Getting over a best friend

Hi! So, long post coming up... Around this time last year, I was slowly realising that I was in love with my best friend (both girls), let's call her T. In terms of sexuality this wasn't a massive issue for me - I am bi and had broken up with my boyfriend about 3 months previously. Fast forward thro...
by ralphie41
Tue Jul 14, 2015 3:10 pm
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Kind of in Love with my Best Friend
Replies: 6
Views: 3133

Re: Kind of in Love with my Best Friend

Ideas for maintaining friendship + romantic relationship would be great Sam, thanks! Mollie is definitely fine with LGBT+ things, she knows that I am bi and is 100% supportive. I'm not sure if it's something I should say face to face though, and that won't be possible for over a month, when we will ...
by ralphie41
Tue Jul 14, 2015 2:08 pm
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Kind of in Love with my Best Friend
Replies: 6
Views: 3133

Re: Kind of in Love with my Best Friend

Thanks! Yeah I think I was just freaking out a bit earlier because I'd set myself up for disappointment so didn't really know how to act when it actually went well - I am happy it just seems kind of overwhelming! Mollie would be completely fine with our sexualities, it definitely more that she would...
by ralphie41
Tue Jul 14, 2015 2:57 am
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Kind of in Love with my Best Friend
Replies: 6
Views: 3133

Kind of in Love with my Best Friend

So, I have been in love with my (also female) best friend (let’s call her Zoe) for about 3 months now, if not longer! I’m bi, and she had previously told me that she was straight, so I spent a lot of time telling myself that I was just imagining that she might reciprocate interest. I decided a week ...
by ralphie41
Sun Dec 21, 2014 10:57 am
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: a Smörgåsbord of relationship stuff
Replies: 1
Views: 1657

a Smörgåsbord of relationship stuff

(mods: I wanted to post this in relationships but wouldn't let me- I was on the old boards with the same handle so if you feel this topic would be better over there feel free to move it. ) So, I have been with my current boyfriend for just over 2 years, and we became long distance in september when ...
by ralphie41
Wed Nov 12, 2014 4:29 pm
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: New user now, but an old-timer at our old boards?
Replies: 64
Views: 176329

Re: New user now, but an old-timer at our old boards?

hi, i was ralphie41 and am ralphie41 again (if it's not too late? I haven't been on in a while and can't reply on a thread so i thought this might be the issue?) thanks!