The divorce itself is pretty amicable at the moment, but I am really taking it hard. I'm so so heartbroken and sad and feel lost. I dont know if I agree with the assessment. It's something thats been said to me before and there are times when giving my body got me acceptance. But not love, it just f...

I'm in the middle of a divorce. It's horrible, if I had my way we'd be trying to work it out, but my wife does not feel the same way. In this time I am so horny though, I feel so guilty about it. I don't know who to talk to about it. I have a complicated past. My psychologist believes that i have in...

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I will check out the resources, thank you for them. I think you're right that I have never actively acted on my identity. I met my partner by "coincidence". I did not go look for the relationship, and I never really ventured outside of our relationship. So now I'm actively seeking, and tha...

I signed up to the mailing list for the hiking group. That seems really cool. I have to admit that I am anxious. I'm anxious about my orientation and what I want or desire. I thought I have made peace with it, I thought I have accepted me, but the anxiety I feel now scares me.. and I don't understan...

Hi Latha, Yes I am out to my immediate family and some extended family. Some other family just referredto my partner as my friend even though we are married.. and then to my friends. I pick my friends very carefully but that could just be because I'm a bit older, however they are all straight but a ...

Hey Sam, Yes, it would be helpful to chat about how to connect with the larger community and how to navigate a sense of connection. I do feel very isolated, I don't have any lgbtq friends, mentors well anyone really. All my friends and family are straight. I'm not sure where to start to talk about i...

I think you're right with the binaries that I create. I guess I am learning that there is more than one way. I've got say I have always felt like what I desire is out of the ordinary and wont be found in "normal" life. I want both, and I am unsure where to find people who have the same des...

I have to admit that I feel really confused and lost. Though my friends keep telling me I am not. I am really attracted to women I find the female figure so beautiful and femininity really turns me on. But I have been with men, I was married to a man, I was attracted to him as well. I find men attra...

Dear Scarleteen, I came across your website earlier today as I was looking for someone who might feel as lost as I do. I read a thread that spoke about fantasies, sexual needs and the shame thereof.. You were so kind to the person who were asking the questions that I thought it might be safe for me ...