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- Sat Apr 13, 2024 8:07 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: hypersexuality on HRT?
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hypersexuality on HRT?
I've struggled with hypersexuality a lot, over the years. It has very little to do with actual libido (it relates more to compulsions and intrusive thoughts) although libido can make it worse. I dislike the feelings that come with it, and really don't want to experience it more than I have to. I jus...
- Sat Mar 09, 2024 6:14 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Would it be possible to change my username?
- Replies: 2
- Views: 1014
Re: Would it be possible to change my username?
Ahhhh you folks are great, thanks a ton!!!
- Thu Mar 07, 2024 11:41 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Would it be possible to change my username?
- Replies: 2
- Views: 1014
Would it be possible to change my username?
I uh, intend on keeping the name I've used, on this site, and would prefer to not be affiliated with it directly. If possible, anyway, I would much prefer "Bowler" as my username. Thank you in advance.
- Sun Jan 21, 2024 11:30 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Is sex as a trans person just 'meant' to be boring?
- Replies: 7
- Views: 1789
Re: Is sex as a trans person just 'meant' to be boring?
TristanJPercy wrote: ↑Sun Jan 21, 2024 7:35 pm I don't feel safe there, a history of harassment/generally feeling uncomfortable. (Apologies, I don't want to sound ungrateful). ((And whoops I meant to edit the comment))
- Sun Jan 21, 2024 7:35 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Is sex as a trans person just 'meant' to be boring?
- Replies: 7
- Views: 1789
Re: Is sex as a trans person just 'meant' to be boring?
I don't feel safe there. Harassment/generally unwelcome. Apologies.
- Sat Jan 20, 2024 2:38 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Is sex as a trans person just 'meant' to be boring?
- Replies: 7
- Views: 1789
Re: Is sex as a trans person just 'meant' to be boring?
Fair enough, that last comment offered some valuable perspective to it. I guess I just feel like "Jacking off" so to speak, has always seemed like a rather boring experience? And all the information I see online about making it interesting just wouldn't apply post bottom surgery. Is there ...
- Fri Jan 19, 2024 7:32 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Is sex as a trans person just 'meant' to be boring?
- Replies: 7
- Views: 1789
Is sex as a trans person just 'meant' to be boring?
As a trans person pre surgery, masturbation is already kind of meh, I enjoy it, but only to get off. There's not really anything fundamentally fulfilling about it. Bottom surgery seems to offer a more emotionally fulfilling (AKA less dysphoric experience), but it looks to be incredibly mundane and u...
- Fri Dec 29, 2023 2:56 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: How is anal pleasurable for AFABs?
- Replies: 1
- Views: 866
How is anal pleasurable for AFABs?
This is more of a general question, but I'm curious. There's not really a g-spot there, to my knowledge, no parts or junk there either, I can imagine it being fun, but the sexual pleasure gained eludes me. I'm just interested, thanks.
- Wed Dec 27, 2023 2:18 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: I just masturbated for a long while, and very roughly. Advice for the soreness?
- Replies: 4
- Views: 20059
Re: I just masturbated for a long while, and very roughly. Advice for the soreness?
Yeah, that's helpful, thank you!
- Tue Dec 26, 2023 9:05 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: I just masturbated for a long while, and very roughly. Advice for the soreness?
- Replies: 4
- Views: 20059
Re: I just masturbated for a long while, and very roughly. Advice for the soreness?
Ok! thank you. It's still a bit tender, but a friend said something that sort of worried me, something about breaking my hymen? "popping the cherry", as they put it? Like. A day or two ago I gave it another shot because the pain went down, which ended in me bleeding a tad. The next day a b...
- Sun Dec 24, 2023 12:03 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: I just masturbated for a long while, and very roughly. Advice for the soreness?
- Replies: 4
- Views: 20059
I just masturbated for a long while, and very roughly. Advice for the soreness?
Hey! I recently found a friend who got me into ERP, and we've had a lot of fun with it. Though I've been really frequent with the physical aspects of it, and uh. I think I'm just. Really sore. I used to think "fuck you raw" was just a phrase, but now I sort of wonder if it's a real thing, ...
- Sun Dec 03, 2023 9:20 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: How do I make masturbation go quicker? (Or libido lessen faster?)
- Replies: 14
- Views: 7965
Re: How do I make masturbation go quicker? (Or libido lessen faster?)
I have actually been thinking about seeing a sex therapist for a while, haha. It's not of access to me, no, but in the future it may be, and that's something I'm interested in looking at. Thanks for telling me that it's worth a shot though.
- Fri Dec 01, 2023 5:39 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: How do I make masturbation go quicker? (Or libido lessen faster?)
- Replies: 14
- Views: 7965
Re: How do I make masturbation go quicker? (Or libido lessen faster?)
I guess so. thank you.
- Thu Nov 30, 2023 7:50 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: How do I make masturbation go quicker? (Or libido lessen faster?)
- Replies: 14
- Views: 7965
Re: How do I make masturbation go quicker? (Or libido lessen faster?)
I just don't like the feelings to begin with. I don't want to have to sit there helplessly for them to go away, I'm tired of just squirming around waiting for it to leave, I want to do something to fix it.
- Wed Nov 29, 2023 5:52 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: How do I make masturbation go quicker? (Or libido lessen faster?)
- Replies: 14
- Views: 7965
Re: How do I make masturbation go quicker? (Or libido lessen faster?)
However long the libido itself lasts. The second it's not something I actively really 'deal' with, it's not something that really bothers me deeply.
- Wed Nov 29, 2023 8:00 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: How do I make masturbation go quicker? (Or libido lessen faster?)
- Replies: 14
- Views: 7965
Re: How do I make masturbation go quicker? (Or libido lessen faster?)
I feel stressed out and antsy, mostly. Some panic too on occasion.
- Tue Nov 28, 2023 5:49 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: How do I make masturbation go quicker? (Or libido lessen faster?)
- Replies: 14
- Views: 7965
Re: How do I make masturbation go quicker? (Or libido lessen faster?)
Sexual attraction for me, just always feels inopportune. There's never a "convenient time", because I simply don't want there to be a time for it at all. I'd much rather learn about sex and the social ramifications it has than actually like, masturbate. One of those is just more interestin...
- Mon Nov 27, 2023 7:07 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: How do I make masturbation go quicker? (Or libido lessen faster?)
- Replies: 14
- Views: 7965
Re: How do I make masturbation go quicker? (Or libido lessen faster?)
Thank you for the advice and link, both are helpful. Sexual attraction to me, is just, drab? It's a distraction to the things I find important. I like to think a lot, and being forced to think about whatever NSFW crap my brain throws at me is just so inconvenient. Being titillated during a test as I...
- Sun Nov 26, 2023 9:57 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: How do I make masturbation go quicker? (Or libido lessen faster?)
- Replies: 14
- Views: 7965
How do I make masturbation go quicker? (Or libido lessen faster?)
I don't really enjoy feelings of sexual attraction, I don't really enjoy libido. It's burdensome. I understand that sometimes you need to do things for self care, it's not about pleasure it's about doing what your body needs to run it's best, but.. there's gotta be a quicker way of getting it over w...
- Mon Nov 20, 2023 5:47 pm
- Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
- Topic: How to navigate sexual pleasure, as a dysphoric transgender person?
- Replies: 11
- Views: 11146
Re: How to navigate sexual pleasure, as a dysphoric transgender person?
Thanks, I'll look into it and give that a shot.
- Sun Nov 19, 2023 11:45 am
- Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
- Topic: How to navigate sexual pleasure, as a dysphoric transgender person?
- Replies: 11
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Re: How to navigate sexual pleasure, as a dysphoric transgender person?
I just lie on my back, generally speaking.
I'm very ignorant as to a lot of this, so I'm not sure about alternative positions. Are there alternative means that you suggest?
I'm very ignorant as to a lot of this, so I'm not sure about alternative positions. Are there alternative means that you suggest?
- Sun Nov 19, 2023 10:26 am
- Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
- Topic: How to navigate sexual pleasure, as a dysphoric transgender person?
- Replies: 11
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Re: How to navigate sexual pleasure, as a dysphoric transgender person?
When it comes down to it, I think the motion and position that masturbation is is what gives me the discomfort.
- Sun Nov 19, 2023 1:36 am
- Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
- Topic: How to navigate sexual pleasure, as a dysphoric transgender person?
- Replies: 11
- Views: 11146
Re: How to navigate sexual pleasure, as a dysphoric transgender person?
I've been enjoying sub kink erotica, as of late. (Strange to see it laid out in a sentence like that..) I also guess I'm unsure about a traditional masculine identity? I dunno. I don't really want to be viewed as a man, if that makes sense. Masculinity is something I want to decide or myself, not ac...
- Thu Nov 16, 2023 8:31 pm
- Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
- Topic: How to navigate sexual pleasure, as a dysphoric transgender person?
- Replies: 11
- Views: 11146
Re: How to navigate sexual pleasure, as a dysphoric transgender person?
Primarily masturbation, although I'm open to exploring through other ways.
- Wed Nov 15, 2023 11:41 pm
- Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
- Topic: How to navigate sexual pleasure, as a dysphoric transgender person?
- Replies: 11
- Views: 11146
How to navigate sexual pleasure, as a dysphoric transgender person?
Hello, New to the website, hope all is well. I'm a 17 year old AFAB transgender person, and I'm unsure how to explore sexuality it, taking my gender into consideration. I'd love to learn and explore who I am, but it feels as though everything is gendered a certain way, and working with what I have c...