hi the boys at my school seem to not be able to wrap their heads around the fact that i do not want to have children, at all a lot of adults around me tell me that i'll change my mind as i grow up but i really don't think i will i don't want to sacrifice my body, my career, my life for a child i kno...

hi! i'm coming back here a bit confused because my period isn't here yet it isn't late or anything, i just was expecting it to be here already my last period started on the 28th last month and it's been coming around every 25 days so i'm just a bit concerned i guess? i've been reassuring myself that...

nope, there hasn't been any major changes like that

hi! thanks for the reply
my period's supposed to be here in a few days and i've been experiencing more watery discharge than usual, is this normal?

hi!
can pms symptoms change?
i used to have breast soreness before my periods, then it stopped for a few months and i think i'm experiencing it again

thanks for the additional info sam! i'm a bit confused, i've read some of the stuff here and i'm a bit confused as too why this push is needed when certain situations like semen dripping down to the vagina during anal sex (basically high risk activities where the semen isn't being directly "pus...

yep it does!
is that also the reason why there needs to be direct and immediate contact with ejaculate for there to be a pregnancy risk?

hi! i'm back with another question
so i know semen can be transfered from one plave to another, but when that happens, does the sperm in it just get "smushed" and dies?

hi! so i'm in the middle of going through a semi-pregnancy scare i say semi because i know there isn't anything to be scared or worried about. i've only been practicing safe sex (manual sex) with my boyfriend and we've done this before and i was totally ok, yet this time for some reason i've been ge...

hi! i've got a few questions about sperm
if sperm in semen on surfaces like hands, tables, clothes, etc are left out for a few minutes, do they just "die"?
and does transferring sperm from surface to surface like hand-to doorknob-to whatever other surface just kill them?
thank u in advance!

hi! i found the self help strategies in the link you sent really helpful it helped me calm my anxiety down, and thankfully i got my period today! turns out my anxiety was just making the whole thing scarier than it had to be thank you for the resources!! i'll be sure to check them out if i'm going t...

hm i don't think so? usually when i'm worried i solve the problem (if i can) or try and ignore it by sleeping the worry away

i read through the article, it helped me calm down a bit, thank you! idk why i'm so anxious though, i mean i've done the exact same sexual acts in the past and i felt totally anxiety-free maybe bc those times my period came early but this time my period's not here yet (which admittedly is stressing ...

hi! so my period's been consistently on an under-28-day cycle for the past few months it's been around 27ish days since my last period and it isn't here yet which is freaking me out slightly i did engage in sexual activities w my boyfriend this month but it was only dry humping, manual and oral sex ...

hi! i'm coming back to this thread to ask another question
for dry humping, does moisture present change the risk?
like moisture from my own genitals or moisture from my bf's ejaculate

hi! so i know dry humping poses no risks of pregnancy bc of clothing blocking direct genital-genital contact and semen-vulva/vaginal opening contact but would clothing serve as a safe barrier in other activities like manual sex? like if my bf were to finger me and i have a layer of clothing on, woul...

hi! i do think i'm queer and sometimes i feel disgusted w myself for that, i've also been noticing some homophobic biases towards other queer people

hi! i've been schooled in a very religious and anti-LGBTQ+ school i've found myself lately experiencing forms of internalized anti-LGBTQ+ thoughts (sorry, i'm not sure how to explain it) i know this is wrong and i don't want to feel like this bc it's making me feel like a bad person, how can i be mo...

so lately whenever i think i'm ovulating (2ish weeks before my next period) i keep getting these cramps
google says it's ovulation cramps but i'm super confused as to what those are and why it even happens in the first place
should this be a cause for concern??

ok so i know i shouldn't pursue this one guy. i know he'll only take advantage of me and i know i shouldn't try to pursue anything with him. but i can't. i can't seem to stop myself. help please!!

i think i'd like to correct the teachers who spread misinformation like these. i want to speak up but i'm not sure how to. i'm scared that i'll just get scolded or people will stir up rumors again saying "how do you know all that if you haven't had sex yet?" and stuff i wish my school woul...

hi so my school's been giving my grade mandatory sex ed. but the things they teach seem to contradict the stuff i already know. they just claim every sexual encounter will lead to a pregnancy one of the things they said that sparked my curiosity is that sperm can be "reactivated". like if ...

it's like a whitish clear color i'd say

Hi, so i've noticed i've been producing more discharge and it's more watery. Is this a cause for concern?
My period's due in 2 weeks so could this just be a sign of ovulation?

i think some resources would be great. and getting informed of how to actually speak up would be nice too.
i know moving on isn't a limear process but it's been harder for me to take my time to heal because people around me (my parents specifically) keep pushing me to hurry up and leave it in the past