Hi! sorry to come back to this thread, I need some fact-checking to calm my irrational fears down could i get an explanation as to why residue of ejaculate (cum) could not pose a risk of pregnancy?

can being sexually abused in the past cause me to be hypersexual or want to have sex more and more? i've read stories of victims of sexual abuse being disgusted by the concept of sex, but i'm the opposite of that. i want to stop but i can't. is there something wrong with me?

hi, thank you for the reply! yes i'd definitely love to hear about some grounding techniques!

Hi! I've read the great resources here and all of them answered my fears regarding pregnancy risks through manual sex. But I can't seem to let that fear go completely D: it's always lingering and my brain keeps saying "but what if blablabla" and i subconsciously think that maybe if i don't...

Hi! Thank you for your reply! So is it safe to believe that the sexual activity I engaged in had no pregnancy risk?

Hi!! thank you sm! i read online that sperm can only survive 15-30 minutes outside of the body, could this be true? thank you in advance !

Hi! ever since my horrendous pregnancy scare, i've been practicing "safer sex". the only thing i've been doing with my bf is him fingering me. even so, i've been a bit paranoid especially with the thoughts of "oh he said he masturbated before we met, could there me sperm on his finger...

Hi! yes it is possible, but i'm scared he'll get triggered and spread it :/ and my mom is very caught up with the other situation that i don't know how to bring it up with her right now without stressing her out more/upsetting her

i was expecting that answer, i'm just worried because i sent him sexually explicit pictures before (i'm pretty sure it isn't illegal here, i asked my brother's friend who is a lawyer) and i'm scared he'll spread it D: it's been months since we broke up, and he promised not to do anything with them. ...

my ex (who was 20 when we were dating, i was 13/14) convinced me to engage in sexual acts and i consented to it. is what he did illegal?

Hi! Thank you for answering It's kinda goopy and slimy. I'd say it's similar to egg whites but not as watery. It's mainly clear colored with a slight tint of cream. There's not a lot of odor, it doesn't smell. There isn't any other form of discomfort other than the fact that my diaphragm/stomach fee...

Why am I producing so much discharge? It's a lot more than usual I think. It comes out in goops, like the feeling when you know you're period blood is coming out, it's that feeling. Should I be worried?

It's always been this case with every person, and yes my parents talked about it before. They want me to be abstinent until I'm 18 and I've been trying but it just keeps happening once in a while

Maybe the being sexual when I don't 100% subconsciously want to? Like I always get "carried away" and regret it so much afterwards and maybe my mind's response to stop me from doing it again is just drowning myself in fear. I'm also afraid of disappointing my parents and not having access ...

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yes i did read that article! but i still can't shake the feeling

i feel like i'm going insane. every single thing my body does my brain keeps saying "it's because you're pregnant". i've had my period on time, i took 2 pregnancy tests which came out negative. yet i can't shake the fear away and it's driving me nuts

I don't like seeing her upset because it makes me more disappointed in myself and I end up in an endless cycle of thoughts like "this is your fault mom is sad". I'm scared that her disappointment will lead to unwanted things like her making me break up with my boyfriend or her invading my ...

Hi! To clarify, i didn't have intercourse, just other forms of sexual interactions like giving bj/hj to my boyfriend. I think my mom's disappointed because in the past she's asked me to be abstinent at least until I'm 18 and in university and also because I was dishonest with her. She can handle her...

My relationship with my mom is good for the most part. And I'd like to mention that my mom didn't get angry! Well not the conventional type of angry, more of the "I can't believe this, this is ridiculous" and just disbelief type of angry (sorry if that made no sense). I would love if I cou...

My mom recently found my previous pregnancy tests (which i took in a place of paranoia, not because i did anything that could pose a risk of pregnancy, but my mom doesn't believe me) and she just kept saying she's disappointed in me and can't trust me. she knew that i was sexual with my boyfriend in...

Hi! a couple weeks ago I've posted askimg whether or not my sexual encounter with my bf had a risk of pregnancy or not. To reassure myself, I took a pregnancy test around 25 days after the risk and it came out negative. I've gotten my period today as expected (when I woke up and peed my pee was brig...

Hi, thank you for the resources! I think he'll be pretty open to reading some of the articles here! If he was unwilling to steer his communication skills to match my needs more, well I guess we're just not meant to be

Hi! I think this issue is a recent one, we didn't have this many mismatches early on in our relationship And yes I did get a chance to read that article. I resonated with the communication section and realized that I don't really like the words he uses and how he sometimes lacks the ability to try a...

Hi! I've been dating him for about 10 months now and at first I felt like he was perfect for me. I've felt like this was an issue maybe a few months back? When I talk to him about these issues I just expect him to say sorry and that he'll do better (which he does!). It's hard sometimes to have to ge...

Hi, thank you for the answer! I have communicated with him on multiple occasions on this and he says he'll do better etc. I think he grasps that these moments are special because he cares about HIS moments (i.e. he got upset when his parents semi-forgot about his birthday) but maybe he doesn't care ...