Thank you, I am very well aware that this wasn't okay. I know that fully, not just deep down. Rape doesn't feel like the right word for a couple reasons. The first is that he didn't penetrate me with a sex organ, which would be the legal definition of rape. The second is that although what he did wa...

A few months ago I was dating a guy. We were fooling around, but everything was over the clothes. He was using his fingers over my underwear, all of this I consented to. But then, without asking me, he moved his fingers underneath my underwear and put one into my vagina. I didn't realize until a cou...