Update on this, I actually managed to get somewhere today! I took a lot of suggestions from this thread and while I did have to stop pretty quickly cause I got super overwhelmed, I'm way more optimistic about the future now. Genuinely, thank you all so much for all the advice and suggestions, I defi...

Hello! You’ve already gotten some great advice in this thread, but I just wanted to pop in and say that this is nothing to be embarrassed about and you definitely aren’t alone in this scenario; I’m 23, asexual, and experienced sexual pleasure for the very first time only a few days ago! Like you, I...

Hey kitschen -- like Nicole said, what you're struggling with is something we have talked with folks a lot on the board. So much so that I'm actually starting to work on resource article all about it! There's so much we can talk through here, I'm just going to pull out one piece with this reply. So...

Hope it's okay to jump in! This topic spoke to me :) I love what Mo mentioned about additional pleasuring experiences outside of masturbation! As someone who used to have a high sex drive (with a ton of shame about it since "girls are supposed to be innocent") and has become someone with ...

Glad we could be here as a place for you to talk about all this! :) If it helps at all, you aren't at all alone in having this frustration. We get a lot of folks here who struggle to feel pleasure during masturbation, and it's something that I think people can feel really isolated about as it isn't...

Hi there! I've been taking Lexapro for I think at least a good five years. I don't think it's necessarily an issue though; in fact, my interest in sexual stuff has only increased while taking it because now my brain isn't preoccupied thinking there's danger around every corner. Before I was taking i...

It's extremely embarrassing to admit and I feel supremely broken, and so frustrated I may cry. I'm 24 years old and never once have I been able to sexually stimulate myself. Not once. I occasionally have non-sexual dreams that result in me waking up really aroused, but there's never anything I can d...