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by bluespreadsheet
Thu Feb 22, 2024 1:03 am
Forum: Bodies
Topic: Resources to learn about effects of AFAB people doing testosterone?
Replies: 1
Views: 7608

Resources to learn about effects of AFAB people doing testosterone?

I'm really curious about the topic of people doing testosterone, but I'm struggling to find good resources about it online. Most of what I found is very basic stuff about "Why would someone do this" and short lists of possible effects. I also wonder about the effects of people doing it at ...
by bluespreadsheet
Fri Jan 12, 2024 11:55 pm
Forum: Sex, Culture and Politics
Topic: Places for minors to discuss sexual topics?
Replies: 10
Views: 7023

Re: Places for minors to discuss sexual topics?

I completely agree with you. I'll be honest, I'm so used to arguing with people who start from the basis of "minors and adults should have separate spaces" that a lot of my arguments from those paragraphs were adapted from arguments to those people, where I try to sympathize with their vie...
by bluespreadsheet
Fri Jan 12, 2024 11:40 pm
Forum: Bodies
Topic: Eating Spicy Food
Replies: 1
Views: 2033

Eating Spicy Food

I like eating spicy food, but I don't like when it exits my body! I don't get any health problems from it, it's just normal poop, it's just painful poop. Are there any products like creams that you can apply after to make it not hurt faster?
by bluespreadsheet
Fri Jan 12, 2024 7:04 pm
Forum: Sex, Culture and Politics
Topic: Places for minors to discuss sexual topics?
Replies: 10
Views: 7023

Re: Places for minors to discuss sexual topics?

Thoughts on this a year later. Before turning 18, I was pretty interested in being in adult spaces to share fanart and whatever without having to lie and disrespect the trust of other people around me. However... As an 18 year old, this hasn't really worked out! All the adult places require ID as a ...
by bluespreadsheet
Fri Jan 12, 2024 6:55 pm
Forum: Gender
Topic: Using they/them
Replies: 5
Views: 5000

Re: Using they/them

I've thought a lot about this for years. People always say "are they" and "they're" and "they visit" (when singular would be "they visits). The exception to this is that the word "themself" has slowly been being popularized. Personally, I prefer people to...
by bluespreadsheet
Thu Jul 27, 2023 12:56 am
Forum: Sexual Health
Topic: How do anal when poo exists
Replies: 1
Views: 8300

How do anal when poo exists

I've tried looking up people discussing this on the website, but I haven't found any mentions of it! So a lot of people talk about anal sex, or about putting things in their butt, and that's fine and all, but isn't there poop in there?? You wouldn't want your fingers touching it, you wouldn't want y...
by bluespreadsheet
Mon Mar 06, 2023 4:29 pm
Forum: Bodies
Topic: Falling causes discomfort
Replies: 1
Views: 1477

Falling causes discomfort

For my entire life, whenever I fall (jump off of something tall, are on a swingset) I get an unpleasant sinking feeling in my crotch. It's not sexual, but it is a private area so it's difficult for me to bring up, and when I have asked about it people don't seem to understand. It's hard to find comp...
by bluespreadsheet
Sat Dec 31, 2022 6:45 pm
Forum: Sex, Culture and Politics
Topic: Places for minors to discuss sexual topics?
Replies: 10
Views: 7023

Re: Places for minors to discuss sexual topics?

1. I think adults can and SHOULD have their own separate spaces. It's not fair to ask them to babysit or include minors in their spaces if they don't want to. The issue arises when minors have nowhere else to go. There are not public minor communities where ppl can openly share fanfic with each othe...
by bluespreadsheet
Wed Dec 21, 2022 7:01 pm
Forum: Sex, Culture and Politics
Topic: Places for minors to discuss sexual topics?
Replies: 10
Views: 7023

Re: Places for minors to discuss sexual topics?

So basically YEAH I highly agree there should be more easy to access for teens to be able to discuss nsfw with each other, and more places for teens to talk about it with adults. Personal experience has shown me it is a PAIN to find spaces to be able to discuss these topics, even when it has nothing...
by bluespreadsheet
Wed Dec 21, 2022 6:50 pm
Forum: Bodies
Topic: Vulva pain
Replies: 7
Views: 2880

Re: Vulva pain

Alright. I will look into that. Somewhat unrelated, I am really sensitive when it comes to discussing medical problems. I understand making sure I'm not taking something I shouldn't is important, but if you could be a little gentler I would really appreciate it. The current tone feels a little stern...
by bluespreadsheet
Wed Dec 21, 2022 3:51 pm
Forum: Bodies
Topic: Vulva pain
Replies: 7
Views: 2880

Re: Vulva pain

Difficulty seeing a doctor just having to do with money problems. We've had to spend a lot of money on other doctor visits so we don't had basically no money for holidays this year, and going to one without me being sure I have to go would stress them out more. Are their problems with waiting for it...
by bluespreadsheet
Wed Dec 21, 2022 3:37 pm
Forum: Sex, Culture and Politics
Topic: Places for minors to discuss sexual topics?
Replies: 10
Views: 7023

Re: Places for minors to discuss sexual topics?

I was linked here by Heather because I made a somewhat-similar post (https://www.scarleteen.com/bb/viewtopic.php?f=14&t=12318) asking about online spaces when I turn 18, but I didn't really go into my fandom experience as a minor. Since I was about 13 I've been interested in nsfw fanworks, fanfi...
by bluespreadsheet
Wed Dec 21, 2022 3:18 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Difficulty talking to my mom about my body
Replies: 3
Views: 5391

Re: Difficulty talking to my mom about my body

Possibly. I think the solution is definitely to talk to them about it, but I just wanted to vent about it first and sort out my thoughts before bringing it up.
by bluespreadsheet
Wed Dec 21, 2022 3:14 pm
Forum: Gender
Topic: Utter Lack of Gender Euphoria
Replies: 6
Views: 9716

Re: Utter Lack of Gender Euphoria

About login: If I am logged out and click "reply" on someone's post, it takes me to a login page with small boxes that works. But If I try to use the normal login page (https://www.scarleteen.com/user/login) I enter the login and it just reloads without logging in, even in different browse...
by bluespreadsheet
Wed Dec 21, 2022 3:09 pm
Forum: Bodies
Topic: Vulva pain
Replies: 7
Views: 2880

Re: Vulva pain

1) No, it's been normal. Just cotton underwear changed and washed normally 2) Kind of the third but it's mostly external 3) I haven't been diagnosed but when looking it up a lot of it sounded like it. I've had frequent UTIs in the past (they were diagnosed, also they've been gone for a while. like a...
by bluespreadsheet
Tue Dec 20, 2022 11:55 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Difficulty talking to my mom about my body
Replies: 3
Views: 5391

Difficulty talking to my mom about my body

I have 2 parents, mom and dad, but my dad sucks so I wouldn't tell him anything. My mom (nonbinary but still "mom") is good though. They are very sex positive and have tried to teach me and my siblings important topics about sex since we were young. Especially since I'm older they bring it...
by bluespreadsheet
Tue Dec 20, 2022 11:21 pm
Forum: Gender
Topic: Utter Lack of Gender Euphoria
Replies: 6
Views: 9716

Re: Utter Lack of Gender Euphoria

Meant to post this a while ago, but logging in was difficult because the "login" page doesn't work and you need to find some weird seperate page to do it. Here's what I wrote a while back: Yeah... I said in my original post "I know it's not a universal experience, but I just feel put ...
by bluespreadsheet
Tue Dec 20, 2022 8:15 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Turning 18, online spaces, mostly rambling
Replies: 1
Views: 1479

Turning 18, online spaces, mostly rambling

Mostly rambling about nsfw online. Put in relationships because it asks about how weird it is to talk to people about things that would normally be reserved for a partner. --- I'm aromantic and asexual, and I dislike any idea of being involved in any real-life sex with another person... BUT I am rea...
by bluespreadsheet
Tue Dec 20, 2022 7:32 pm
Forum: Bodies
Topic: Vulva pain
Replies: 7
Views: 2880

Vulva pain

For almost a week now I've been feeling a lot of itching and pain in my vulva. If I touch it or sit down weird, it can be uncomfortable and cause spiking. Even if I'm not putting pressure on it it's constantly mildly annoying. I've taken showers and tried to clean down there and it's still been hurt...
by bluespreadsheet
Wed Oct 19, 2022 1:28 am
Forum: Gender
Topic: Utter Lack of Gender Euphoria
Replies: 6
Views: 9716

Utter Lack of Gender Euphoria

I was born AFAB, and started really hating being called a "woman" or "girl" around the time I turned 11. Thankfully, I was close to many queer communities and my parent is queer themself. I didn't stop using she/her pronouns until I was 15. I switched to they/them pronouns, but I...
by bluespreadsheet
Tue Oct 18, 2022 3:42 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: Grossed out by realistic pictures of genitals?
Replies: 5
Views: 3761

Re: Grossed out by realistic pictures of genitals?

Alright! Thanks for the advice.
by bluespreadsheet
Tue Oct 18, 2022 3:00 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: Grossed out by realistic pictures of genitals?
Replies: 5
Views: 3761

Re: Grossed out by realistic pictures of genitals?

I get grossed out weather there's a sexual association or not, but I'm more grossed out if there is. The only time I'm not grossed out is when it comes to my own, which I'm very thankful for since I'm nonbinary and many genderqueer people are very sensitive about their own bodies.
by bluespreadsheet
Tue Oct 18, 2022 2:56 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: Bad Wet Dreams
Replies: 1
Views: 3135

Bad Wet Dreams

I am asexual and am not attracted to people in real life, nor do I want to be. I do still experience occasional sexual feelings though, I just wouldn't want to do anything involving another person and all my fantasies are around fictional typically 2D characters in settings that do not involve me, b...
by bluespreadsheet
Tue Oct 18, 2022 2:45 pm
Forum: Et Cetera
Topic: Grossed out by realistic pictures of genitals?
Replies: 5
Views: 3761

Grossed out by realistic pictures of genitals?

I am aromatic/asexual, and for me that means I have never felt attracted to another person romantically or physically. Pictures of genitalia, regardless of which kind, or if it's in a pornographic or educational or medical sense, always gross me out. I love being asexual, but I want to be more body ...