hi amanda,

ill try that thank you all for the help!

hi sam! i guess its just, like... logically i know that kinks dont define ones morality but i feel that, because z liked certain things, and the few other people i've met with similar tastes have also not been great people, that that makes me a bad person for enjoying those same things? or like some...

hi latha! admittedly this response made me a little emotional, lol. not in a bad way, i understand what you're saying and i think i really needed to hear that. i think i view it as a failure on my end for allowing it to happen or taking part in the first place. i dont (or didnt) consider myself repr...

hi amanda, that sounds helpful but its also easier said than done :-( my main method has just been ignoring it and trying to move on, but recently these feelings have been so insurmountable that i cant ignore them anymore, as such i dont really have any strategies in place. i'll try being more compa...

hi latha, thank you :-( that means a lot, it's hard to have compassion for myself sometimes but you're right, there was a lot that i didn't even mention that happened that influenced my decisions and i was operating the best i could. i think i feel ashamed because even though i can tell now that tho...

trigger warning here. lots of talk about unhealthy sexuality and kink and potential power differences (??) in a past relationship. i cant tell if this should be in sexuality or in here, but theres a lot on my ex so im putting it here. i don't even know where to begin with this, its a long story and ...

i just had to take a moment after reading through that, woah... that really sounds like me. i'll def be looking into that more, thank you all for the help and advice! <3

thank you! i'm really trying, haha :') social media is definitely an important part of my life, especially with the aforementioned undiagnosed autism. i can't reach my online friends without it and therefore it's pretty difficult to restrict my access to it. that would also keep me from reaching out...

hi nicole! it's good to know that other people understand where i'm coming from, i've always known this was a problem of mine but those recent events have just... really made me realize how badly i need it to stop. my ex was never supposed to find out about it and i understand they were upset becaus...

hello and thank you! :-) i think so? sometimes i just get overwhelmed with the urge to check up on what other people are doing. i guess it mostly comes from a place of wanting to know if im on the minds of people who used to care about me, but it rarely works out well. loneliness is definitely a fac...

hey, so, ive dated about three people and each time we broke up/cut contact i have had this nasty habit of continuing to check their social media. recently its gotten me into some trouble and i just... cannot continue like this. i keep doing it, even when i make promises to myself, i just... don't h...