Welcome to the boards, and no worries about the length. I'm awfully wordy myself. Thanks for trusting us to share all of that here. Since there is a lot here, I'm going to start from the bottom, with something I think is most central to these kinds of questions. I feel like starting with just one a...

[my pronouns: they/them, he/him] (It’s a very long text. I’m Brazilian, so sorry if there are spelling and grammar mistakes) (CW, TW: sex with men, mention of homophobia, sexual harassment and having sex without wanting to do it) Okay, I really need help with this because I can't stop questioning m...

Omg I'm so shocked right now because I've been thinking that I'm a lesbian but I also have kinky fantasies about men! And I was thinking that it might also invalidates the possibility of me being a lesbian. It's exactly what you said, "When I imagine sex with women, it’s pretty vanilla. But my ...