Hello! I had a question about vibrators and clitorises become desensitized to them. I recently bought a vibrator to use with my partner and it has been a lot of fun! I am studying abroad this semester though, so have been using it a bit more often on my own since my partner is back at home. I use it...

hi, thanks for responding! yeah, when i watch porn and masturbate i watch do "rougher" content, mainly just for noise. i dont think about real life sex like that at all - nor do i want my experience to be like that. i have done a pretty good job in keeping what i watch and what i think/wan...

hello, i am an 18 yo female who recently has become very sexually active with a partner. up until now i have masturbated alone and learned to successfully orgasm in doing this, but as mentioned in past board posts I only really masturbate to porn and have continued to do so. now, my partner and i re...

hello, i am a seventeen yo female who has been masturbating for a few years now. i really enjoy it and usually have no trouble at all, but often i notice that -- even after i orgasm -- i do not get wet. my vulva just stays completely dry. currently, i only masturbate by stimulating my clit and somet...

hi sam, thanks for the reply. that definetly makes me feel better about the situation. so do you think the fear that i will become reliable solely on porn (to feel pleasure when masturbating/ get results) is an unfounded one? if you do think there's a possibility of that happening, would you suggest...

hi! thanks for the response. i definitely hear that the way women are portrayed in porn is often disrespectful and false and that most of the sex is extremely theatrical, dramatic, and "overdone." not providing and portraying the realities and proper context of porn is also a big issue too...

hi again! i had a question abt masturbating while watching porn. i am a 17 year old female who's been masturbating for a couple years but much more regularly for the past few months - especially after i joined scarletteen! i really enjoy it and am always content. i probably do it two-to-three times ...

hi again! thanks for the response. yes, i did realize that vibrators might be harder to buy, but i am very close with my cousin about this stuff and she's twenty so if i really want one she can always buy it for me (cheating the system, haha!) also, i've definitely beaten the past plateau level, whi...

hello again, thanks so much for the response! and yes, i was definitely thinking of an orgasm as the main goal here. i hear all about how i should "be my first" and i think that influences some pressure a bit at times, especially since im entering an age and period where id just like to ex...

hi! im seventeen and have recently started to masturbate. my first try was about 2 years ago, and I don't do it very often. I am very open to experiencing pleasure, and I would actually love to do so, but the issue is that I have always struggled to find that certain thing that really pleasures me. ...