I have a question about perceiving your gender. Is it healthy to try to positively visualize your genitals as something like a pillow or something instead of as genitals? This isn't in a sexual role play way. And can you use that same visualization when your cleaning your body or do you need the min...

I'll keep looking- I looked at many articles around that day so no worries! Maybe I could just look up general how to name things but it may of been the article that was recommended so I'll look at that again. Thanks!!!!

No, it wasn't that one, but thank you for helping me

Hey, I hope this ok but I saw this article on Scarleteen about naming your genitals and could you help me find that list again? Thank you so much!

Thanks!

So for sexuality and gender can you know those things based off of how you want to feel or experience them for ex: if I want to experience sexuality as fizzy and hot or gender as based on a lifestyle like it being more artistic would those help me know if I'm aroused or what gender I identify as? Al...

Ok! Thanks!!!!! I will not do xxx and xxx media for a little while. Thank you guys so much for helping me!!!!! (I've asked other questions on here as you probably already know)

For me the feelings of fidgeting aren't anything I can feel myself doing often, other times often as well, I feel good when I fidget because of worry about if I'd stop if I'd be working against my body, like not letting my body work as natural as my mom has told me. As for the people can't read our ...

I have a bad habit of thrusting my hips or squeezing and rubbing my legs together or swiveling my hips when I'm around others/alone that I don't realize I'm doing it and that its hard to stop it or predict it because it happens unconsciously. I don't know if this is sexual for me- I feel like it cou...

Yes, I struggle with both of those, and thank you for being happy for me

Yes, I do have an anxiety disorder- severe OCD; I was afraid I'd be kicked out for something I did in the past but I wasn't, my parents have promised me over and over again that they wouldn't kick me out over the years-3 yrs atleast. Also I am 20 yrs old so it wouldn't be abuse if they kicked me out...

Hey, my question is how do you deal with relationships in some ways like I get mean or angry thoughts about others but I know its unwise and unhelpful for me too. My question is, if I doubt a that thought does that mean I mean it or partially mean it because the feelings I get are frustration, anxie...

When working on shame is it wise to work a lot on one part I have shame about at a time or a little bit about each thing I have shame about? Ex 1. Working on shame about my breasts for a few weeks or 2. Working on shame about my strong interest in sex, my resentfulness towards my family, my forgetfu...

Is it normal for masturbation to hurt in some areas or from what you are doing? How do I know if a way I'm masturbating isn't good for my mental or physical health? If its up to me to figure it out do you know some approaches I could use to figuring it out for myself? Like for me if masturbation hur...

What are some coping skills to overcome shame or sexual shame? Like especially how do you cope with feeling alone and bad about the stuff that you are into when society doesn't give much positive feedback about those things and if they are feedback with some stuff its only in an erotic context. I'd ...

I have three questions, one how do you have romantic feelings for yourself and two how do you feel content without a partner or someone who compliments or flirts with you? How do you treat yourself and experience yourself as being enough and not needing romance, friends, family in order for you to c...

I've got some questions first does being sexually attractive to yourself mean you are turning yourself on or that you are stimulating yourself sexually or does it depend on the person and circumstance? Thanks!!!!

This has been bothering me, maybe really bothering me Idk, but can you stimulate someones genitals by your energy even if you don't look sexual, can that be abuse? Also is sex addiction real? Because I have a religious mother who believes that each person can feel each others energies and can hurt s...

Could I have some songs without xxx in them? Thanks!

Hey! Thank you so much for responding!!!

This is not a joke, I have some questions about wiping your vagina. Do you wipe the sides of your labia after you pee every time even if there's no urine you see/feel on it? Do you wipe below your vagina after each time after you urinate? Is it ok to get urine/discharge on toilet paper? For me when ...