The advice about talking to them separately is very good, thank you. I was planning to visit them this month (I’ve also got other good friends at that city but I’d stay at L’s house), but now I’m not so sure because it could feel very uncomfortable, and while I know it would be a great time to recon...

Not really sure how to explain the background here. I moved away two years ago, but still keep close contact with my friends from that town— less this year bc schools been crazy, but we still talk at least four times a week per text. In October of last year I broke up with my boyfriend, and he was k...

Yes, well, it sucked. Looking back, we weren’t enjoying it for a long time, I simply thought it was all in my head. A couple of friends have told me some stuff that happened and that he said months ago and honestly, I think he wasn’t in love since march, maybe even before. Sucks that we parted our w...

we did end up breaking up, I’m October 15th. I was okay and then he texted me like, two days later?, and ever since I’m just angry and upset about how it turned out. Not exactly about breaking up, but about how he treated me. He hooked up with a girl two days ago, one who had flirted with him while ...

So. My last topic isn’t old, but I think that I should make a new one because the situation has kind of escalated. But for anyone reading it, my other post will provide the needed context. After I made the og post, we stopped talking as much, mostly because I wasn’t chasing him as much. Rather, if h...

Hi Mo, That’s an actual possibility, and I feel like I’m looking for every excuse for his (lack of) actions. It’s sad knowing that a relationship I hold dear with someone who means so much to me might come to an end, and that all of our intimacy will be lost, as I don’t think we’ll be able to be “ju...

Hi Michaela, thanks for the answer! While I had an idea of the things I wanted in a relationship, it’s easier to recognize them when they’re written clearly, so thank you for that. I think that I would add not being shy of showing me to friends and family, and that along with being vulnerable and be...

I was going to say yes, because I know we'll break up before college so I want to enjoy as many good moments with him as possible, to have sweet "dating in high school" memories. But the truth is that I dont know. I do think there is a big chance I'll break up with him some day out of ange...

Hey Sam W, thanks for your input. I do believe I have a pretty standard life besides him, and all of our common friends. I crochet and I'm pretty good at school, but I dont know if studying counts as a hobby. I really like learning, am fluent on two other languages besides my own, and enjoy discover...

Hi Nicole! Thanks for taking your time to answer. I would like to know how you handled it, thank you. My boyfriend's love language is primarily physical touch. We've done two tests, and in both of his, physical touch had a higher percentage, wasn´t close to any other. When we meet, he is generally v...

For context, we are in the last year of school and long distance; started to date when we were at the same school but then both moved, and live one hour away but don’t meet more than twice a month for a few hours. We were talking the other day, and I asked him if there was anything he wanted to tell...

Hello. I'd like to know if, after oral sex, other people can know what you did because it leaves some specifc smell. If I were to give my boyfriend a handjob and he came into my mouth, would anyone be able to smell anything, considering I would wash my hands with water and soap and brush my teeth af...