Yeah we have and we do enjoy sexting but we're both frustrated on how to take things further. We only see each other at college and can't find any alone time outside of that. There is no way we can meet up with our strict families.

Hi! Me and my first ever girlfriend have been dating for over two moths now. We both have very high sexual drives and often want to talk about sex. We both come from strict families so contact is limited and sex is definitely not allowed. We have been sexting for a while and masturbating at the same...

Oh that looks interesting. Thanks for that. Do you have any recommendations on what to do. And also it really frustrates me because I have tried quite a few things but nothing seems to work. I've tried making toys and whatnot and it works to an extent. But then i just have to use the usual way to fi...

Thanks a lot. I just feel like i'm doing the same thing over and over. I do get aroused quite often and feel the need to masturbate. But i kinda want different ways or like you said other body parts. But i'm not really sure how. I also struggle to use anything that might help

I think I've said something similar before about this subject but i haven't really felt any better. Sorry if I have repeated anything. I just feel like when i masturbate it's not good enough. Sometimes it feels like its just something to get over and done with. But i want it to feel good and special...

Oh okay that makes a lot of sense. I just want to thank you for your help. Hopefully it makes my life a lot better!

Oh okay, well i will try vaseline and attempt to make something that helps with masturbating. Also one more thing: I feel like sometimes i just go and get it over with and that's it. Do you have any tips to build the arousal up for a period of time so that once i do it, its better?

ahh okay that helps a lot. So would vaseline (the one for your lips) be a viable option?
A seperate note: how does lube help with masturbation?

i don't have sleeves per say. i have things like rubber gloves and toilet rolls which is good. but lube wise i have nothing. also it would be tough to clean gloves up especially if they need to be used. sorry about this :/

yeah that's what i've been looking forward too. but with strict parents and stuff i struggle to buy anything or even make anything. it's frustrating

i'm not sure. Just a lot better, and when it finishes i genuinely feel satisfied i guess. I want other ways to masturbate other than using hands and stuff. thanks for the link btw

yeah i guess. it's just a struggle as i gotta keep it quiet and secret so i don't get caught. i just want to have better sessions

Masturbating just doesn't feel the same anymore. i feel like i need different ways to do it or switch up my experience. But i dunno what to do??