Hi Sam,
Thank you for the clear response! So does that mean I should just be patient with my emotions for now and try to not overthink about all this? All of these weird feelings should pass eventually right?
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- Tue Sep 19, 2023 7:37 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: More anxiety/mood swings during ovulation week?
- Replies: 4
- Views: 1658
- Tue Sep 19, 2023 1:54 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: More anxiety/mood swings during ovulation week?
- Replies: 4
- Views: 1658
Re: More anxiety/mood swings during ovulation week?
oh and another thing worthy of note is that my period for this month ended about 2 weeks ago, so like around September, 5th. so maybe my mood changing has something to do with that as well?
- Tue Sep 19, 2023 1:45 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: More anxiety/mood swings during ovulation week?
- Replies: 4
- Views: 1658
More anxiety/mood swings during ovulation week?
So I've been feeling more tired and more anxiety recently, then I checked my period tracker app, and it shows that I'm on ovulation week right now. Is it normal for me to feel more tired and anxious than usual during these times? I think I used to experience similar feelings, but this month has been...
- Fri Jul 28, 2023 8:47 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: how to deal with a crush that i have no chance with
- Replies: 5
- Views: 7571
Re: how to deal with a crush that i have no chance with
hey Michaela, yes, we still text mostly as our form of socializing. it's mostly due to my preference and our culture i think. I've never called my best friend on my cellphone, just because we aren't really comfortable with it, and we just prefer texting. other than texting, I've invited them to go t...
- Mon Jul 24, 2023 8:19 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: how to deal with a crush that i have no chance with
- Replies: 5
- Views: 7571
Re: how to deal with a crush that i have no chance with
hi Nicole, So my relationship and how i develop a crush on them is kinda... unconventional i would say. we weren't classmates in any of my school years because I'm 1 year older than them, we just kept in contact via text messages every once and a while. I realized my crush for them around last year,...
- Mon Jul 24, 2023 7:34 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: how to deal with a crush that i have no chance with
- Replies: 5
- Views: 7571
how to deal with a crush that i have no chance with
Hello, so I've been having a crush on a long-time friend, and basically someone I don't have a chance with for now. They're going to college this summer in a different city that's kinda far away. I'm not trying to get them to date me or confess my feelings or anything like that. I just can't help bu...
- Sat Jun 24, 2023 2:17 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: How to deal with unrequited feelings
- Replies: 3
- Views: 3667
Re: How to deal with unrequited feelings
hi Sam, thank you for the reply! I've been allowing myself to feel those sad feelings these days, and try my best not to blame myself or trash talk myself. I guess it's been great so far since I feel less troubled by it. So now I'm wondering, do you think it'll be okay for me to ask how they're doin...
- Mon Jun 19, 2023 11:45 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: How to deal with unrequited feelings
- Replies: 3
- Views: 3667
How to deal with unrequited feelings
Hi, so there's this person who I have a crush on for a year now. We weren't super close friends, but I've known them since childhood, and basically text three or four times a year since our lives don't have that much in common. I know this may sound like an unlikely scenario to develop a crush on so...
- Sun Jun 11, 2023 6:45 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: scared of getting an infection
- Replies: 3
- Views: 7619
Re: scared of getting an infection
hi Sam, I don't think I have a specific reason to be scared of getting an infection, it's just that I read about people getting one when they didn't properly clean their hands. It could also just be caused by my anxiousness over this whole thing, I'm prone to being an overthinker haha. Anyways, than...
- Thu Jun 08, 2023 7:51 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: scared of getting an infection
- Replies: 3
- Views: 7619
scared of getting an infection
So I've been exploring my body a bit more and have been trying to touch around my vagina area to see how I feel, but I'm a bit scared that I'll get an infection. Before I touch myself, I washed my hands multiple times and didn't stick my finger into myself because I feel like I'm not ready for that ...
- Sat Feb 18, 2023 6:10 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Question about arousal
- Replies: 1
- Views: 1231
Question about arousal
So, I'm currently a single, afab person. I've realized that I haven't felt aroused or horny in some time. Before, I can feel aroused a week prior my period, and I can also feel aroused when reading fan fiction that have sexual content. I usually masturbate 3~4 times a month. It may not seem like a l...
- Tue Jan 10, 2023 5:30 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Overthinking everything about my crush
- Replies: 1
- Views: 2383
Overthinking everything about my crush
For context, I'm on the aromantic/asexual spectrum, and this person is my first ever crush in my entire life. So all of this romantic feelings are kinda overwhelming, and is making more anxious whenever I text them. So I realized that whenever I message my crush, I always feel like I wrote the wrong...
- Sun Oct 30, 2022 7:23 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Gender identity questions
- Replies: 7
- Views: 9286
Re: Gender identity questions
Hi Sian, What I want about my gender...hmm... I think I prefer shorter hair, not like a complete pixie cut, but like around my ears, which is actually my current hair style! I actually felt genuinely happy when I saw my reflection in the mirror with shorter hair, I feel like it's the hair style I wa...
- Tue Oct 18, 2022 7:15 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Gender identity questions
- Replies: 7
- Views: 9286
Re: Gender identity questions
I think I tend to feel that, this person in the mirror doesn't look like me, I know the personality is me, but the appearance is just weird. I'll feel like wanting to look different, but I don't have certain parts of me that I wanna change. I guess I was a bit self-conscious of how my eyes and face ...
- Sun Oct 16, 2022 11:58 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Gender identity questions
- Replies: 7
- Views: 9286
Re: Gender identity questions
Hi Sam, I think they tend to focus on my face and sometimes chest. So when I walk into a bathroom, I see my face in the mirror, I'll get that weird feeling of wanting to look away. Or when I'm taking a shower, sometimes I'll try to look away and try not to see my chest's reflection in the mirror. It...
- Fri Oct 07, 2022 5:24 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Gender identity questions
- Replies: 7
- Views: 9286
Gender identity questions
So my relationship with my gender identity is weird. I'm AFAB, sometimes I feel so happy to be in a feminine body. I love my voice, curly hair and just everything about my own body. Everything just feels so natural, and being female feels like the best thing in the world. However, every once and a w...
- Thu Sep 08, 2022 11:17 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Am I demisexual?
- Replies: 3
- Views: 874
Re: Am I demisexual?
Hi Sam,
Gotcha, thank you so much for the reply! Have a nice day/night.
Gotcha, thank you so much for the reply! Have a nice day/night.
- Thu Sep 08, 2022 6:06 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Am I demisexual?
- Replies: 3
- Views: 874
Am I demisexual?
So I recently started thinking I may be demisexual since I have only had 1 actual crush in my whole life, I've known them for 8 years, and they're the only person that I have ever experienced sexual attraction to. I was really surprised at first to discover that it isn't "normal" to want t...
- Sat Aug 20, 2022 4:38 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Question about periods
- Replies: 2
- Views: 1313
Re: Question about periods
Hi Heather Thank you for the empathetic and reassuring response, it really calmed me down a lot. I think for now I'll try my best to focus on my own mental health, good news is I can probably go to therapy again in September, so maybe I'll talk to them about managing my anxiety and stress. Thanks ag...
- Wed Aug 03, 2022 12:53 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Question about periods
- Replies: 2
- Views: 1313
Question about periods
So I've been experiencing irregular period cycles for the past year or so. Ever since late 2021, when I started preparing for my college entrance exam, my periods became really close to each other, like 20 days apart, but they were still somewhat regular. After the exam (which was in January 2022), ...
- Tue Jun 14, 2022 10:41 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Questions about pronouns
- Replies: 5
- Views: 4092
Re: Questions about pronouns
Hi Sam
Ok! Thanks so much for the tip!
If it's ok, can I ask for the links to the articles that you mentioned? Since personally I want to learn more about the idea of gender too!
Ok! Thanks so much for the tip!
If it's ok, can I ask for the links to the articles that you mentioned? Since personally I want to learn more about the idea of gender too!
- Thu Jun 09, 2022 11:37 pm
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Questions about pronouns
- Replies: 5
- Views: 4092
Re: Questions about pronouns
Hi Sam
My brother is 15 years old! And due to our education and culture, we don't really have a chance in school to learn about these things, I only get to know about these because I spend quite some time online.
My brother is 15 years old! And due to our education and culture, we don't really have a chance in school to learn about these things, I only get to know about these because I spend quite some time online.
- Thu Jun 09, 2022 9:02 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Questions about pronouns
- Replies: 5
- Views: 4092
Questions about pronouns
So my younger brother asked me why do some people put different kinds of pronouns on their social media bio today. Since our native language doesn't really have a pronouns system like English, it's kinda tough for me to explain to him why does English have she/they, he/they, they/them and other kind...
- Sun May 29, 2022 8:26 am
- Forum: Ask Us!
- Topic: Is it ok to be myself in a relationship?
- Replies: 1
- Views: 1487
Is it ok to be myself in a relationship?
It's not like I'm about to have a romantic relationship with anyone though, I'm just kinda curious about what people will think of me if I mainly talk about topics that I'm passionate about. Some people used to find me boring because all I talk about is nerdy things that I love, such as languages an...
Re: Crush
Hi Sam
Yeah I think I can try to do that! I'll think of something to talk about and prepare for our next conversation!
Thanks a bunch for all the help
Yeah I think I can try to do that! I'll think of something to talk about and prepare for our next conversation!
Thanks a bunch for all the help