Thank you so much, Sam, for providing your thoughts and helping me out! It's so reassuring to hear positive feedback from others after being so unsure for so long. I do like the term queer...might stick with it for now. Then of course there's the "am I asexual" question, but I'm less conce...

Also, is it normal to feel really excited about dating a woman? I mean, dating a man I'm attracted to sounds nice, but dating a woman I'm attracted to sounds...much more exciting. Is this just because I've realized I don't have to only date men? 😄 It's strange--to me, it's almost like I'm more aesth...

That all makes so much sense. I tend to forget that relationships can end for a variety of reasons! Thanks for reminding me. Attraction is definitely a strange thing, yes. I just need to be honest with people. I like the term "queer" but I know a lot of people aren't comfortable with it. &...

Hi there, Thanks for the answer! I really appreciate you taking the time to respond. I should clarify that I do feel attraction (at least aesthetic) to men--there are plenty of men I see and say, "Wow, he's pretty/handsome/good looking." Sorry if I wasn't clear on that. :) What you say mak...

Hi there. I’m a female in my mid-20s, and having grown up very conservatively with not much of a sex education, I am finding your website very helpful. What’s been bothering me (for five years now) is my sexuality. I realize a label is not always important, but I don’t want to be present myself a wa...